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Find answers to frequently asked questions about Confidently Mommin’ and Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Learn more about parenting coaching services, approaches, and how to get started on your journey. FAQ Do you have an office near me? I’m as close as your computer! I work with all my clients via Zoom and my certification is international so I get to serve clients anywhere and everywhere. When do you observe my child? I actually don’t! I have worked in families homes for over twenty years and have found it is most effective to talk to the parent and hear their perspective on their child’s behavior. My clients are welcome to send me videos of their child but that’s usually not necessary. Should my partner be on the consultation call too? You are both welcome to be on the call! However, most people prefer to talk to me individually. My coaching program focuses on one parent. Each parent has different triggers, emotional reactions, and default responses, so I work with each parent individually to address your specific patterns with your child. All coaching sessions can be recorded and a transcript and summary is provided that can be shared with the partner and the partner is welcome to join occasional sessions to ensure everyone is on the same page. I offer a discount for couples that each purchase their own individual coaching package. Do you acccept insurance? No, my services are private pay only. My package was thoughtfully and intentionally created to bridge the gap between what medical insurance provides and what families actually need to change their child(ren)’s behavior. Is your coaching program the same as therapy No! I am not a licensed therapist and do not do therapy. I LOVE therapy and recommend it for all humans, and what I do is very different. While we will discuss some thoughts and emotions that are keeping you stuck, we will do this in a very intentional and step by step way with an emphasis on behavior change. I do not provide medical treatment for a mental health condition, instead I use a unique blend of mindset work and research-based behavioral strategies to change your behavior so that you can change your child’s behavior. Some of my clients are also in therapy to resolve childhood issues, trauma, treat a mental health condition, etc., and it works well to do both. How much does your coaching program cost? I share that information with you on the consultation call once I understand your unique family situation and what your needs are. Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

Join Melissa Schulz's Group Coaching program to connect with like-minded individuals, gain practical tools for growth, and work towards your goals in a supportive environment. Unlock your potential with expert guidance and collaborative insights. Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA Behavior Expert and Parenting Coach Named “Best Parenting Coach in the United States in 2025” Yell Less, Smile More When nothing seems to work with your strong willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse child… finally understand the behavior and know exactly what to do next. Inside this coaching program you will learn the proven system that helps moms stop reacting, understand what is actually driving their child’s behavior, and create real lasting change at home. Join the Waitlist Be the first to be notified when enrollment opens! Join the Waitlist You love your child more than anything. But parenting them feels harder than you ever expected. You try to stay calm. Sometimes you succeed. But other times you hear yourself yelling and immediately feel awful. The meltdowns seem to come out of nowhere. The power struggles drain your energy. You repeat yourself over and over and somehow nothing changes. You read the books. You try the parenting strategies. You promise yourself tomorrow will be different. And yet the same cycle keeps happening. Part of you wonders: What am I missing? The truth is, many strong willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids do not respond to traditional parenting strategies. Not because you are doing something wrong. And not because your child is broken. It is because their nervous system and brain work differently. Until you understand why the behavior is happening, the strategies rarely work. Maybe you recognize some of this: Your child melts down over things that seem small Simple requests turn into arguments Screens cause constant battles You feel like you are walking on eggshells You want to stay calm but keep getting triggered If this sounds like your house lately, you are in the right place. Be the first to be notified when enrollment opens! Join the Waitlist If traditional parenting advice was going to work for your child, it would have worked by now. You have probably tried a lot already. Sticker charts. Consequences. Taking things away. Calm talks about behavior. Maybe some of those things helped a little. But the same power struggles keep showing up. The same meltdowns keep happening. The same patterns keep repeating. Not because you are inconsistent. Not because you are too soft. And not because your child is choosing to make life difficult. Most parenting strategies are designed for kids who can easily regulate their emotions and respond logically to consequences. Strong willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids often cannot. When their nervous system is overwhelmed, their brain is not in a place where lectures, punishments, or rewards actually change the behavior. So parents keep trying harder. More consequences. More rules. More reminders. But without understanding what is actually driving the behavior, the cycle keeps repeating. There’s a better way! When you understand what is actually driving your child’s behavior, everything starts to make more sense. Over the years of working with families, I kept noticing the same thing. Parents were trying incredibly hard. They were reading books, following parenting advice, and doing everything they could to help their kids succeed. But they were missing one critical piece. They were being given strategies without understanding the behavior first. And without that understanding, even good strategies often fall apart. That is why I began teaching parents a simple process that helps them slow down, understand what is really happening, and respond in a way that actually changes behavior. That process is what I now call the GUIDE Framework. Join Now! The GUIDE Framework A simple 5 step process for understanding why the behavior is happening and what to do about it. 1. Gather Data Start by clearly defining the behavior and noticing patterns. This helps you move from guessing about the problem to actually understanding what is happening. 2. Understand Your Triggers Most parents know they should stay calm, but no one teaches them how. You will learn how to regulate your own nervous system so you can respond instead of react. 3. Investigate the Cause Every behavior is serving a purpose. You will learn how to identify what is driving the behavior so you can address the real problem instead of just reacting to the symptoms. 4. Deter the Behavior Once we understand the cause, we focus on preventing the behavior before it starts and teaching the missing skills your child needs. 5. Encourage Appropriate Behavior Finally, we create a discipline plan that reinforces the behaviors you want to see while stopping the reinforcement of problem behaviors. Until you understand what is actually driving your child’s behavior, even good parenting strategies can fall apart. Once you start seeing behavior through this lens, things begin to make a lot more sense. And that is exactly what we focus on inside this program. "The GUIDE framework completely changed how I see my son’s behavior.” - Katie “For the first time I knew what to do instead of guessing.” - Rachel Introducing Confidently Mommin’ Together A three month coaching program designed to help moms of strong willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids finally break the cycle of big behaviors at home. Inside this program, we take the GUIDE framework and apply it to the real situations happening in your home. You will start to see your child’s behavior in a completely different way. Instead of constantly wondering what to try next, you will understand what is actually causing the behavior and how to respond in a way that helps things improve. Things that once felt confusing will start to make sense. And when things make sense, it becomes much easier to know what to do. Join the Waitlist! What the Program Looks Like Kickoff Week: Build Your First Behavior Plan We start the program with a focused kickoff week where we meet for five live calls in one week. Each day we walk through one step of the GUIDE framework together so you can apply it immediately to a behavior happening in your home. By the end of that first week, you will have a clear plan for addressing one specific behavior with your child. Instead of waiting months to see progress, many parents start experiencing clarity right away. Weekly Group Coaching Each week we meet live on Zoom for a group coaching call where we talk through the real situations happening in your home. | You can ask questions, get guidance on your child’s behavior, and learn from the experiences of other parents facing similar challenges. Many parents say this is where things really start to click because they realize they are not alone and begin seeing behavior through a completely different lens. Private 1:1 coaching sessions are also available if you ever want more individualized support (not included but available to purchase within the program at a discounted rate.) A Clear Step by Step Process Inside the program, you will learn how to apply the GUIDE framework to your child’s specific behaviors. Instead of guessing what strategy to try next, you will understand what is actually driving the behavior and how to respond in a way that helps things improve. A Library of Parenting Tools and Resources You will have access to an online portal filled with videos, trainings, and workbooks that walk you through each step of the process. When you join, you will receive your own account plus one additional partner account that you can share with your spouse, partner, nanny, or another caregiver. This makes it much easier for everyone supporting your child to learn the same approach and stay on the same page. A Community of Moms Who Get It You will be part of a private Facebook community of moms who truly understand what you are going through. This becomes a place where you can ask questions, share wins, and get encouragement between coaching calls. Many parents say this support alone makes a huge difference. Tools You Can Use in Real Life Throughout the program you will learn practical tools that help you: stay calmer in difficult moments reduce power struggles respond to meltdowns more effectively teach your child the skills they are missing These are tools you can start using right away. Many parents join this program feeling overwhelmed and unsure what to try next. Within a few weeks, they start seeing their child’s behavior in a completely different way. Safe and Sound Protocol Listening Sessions: Optional Nervous System Support for Moms Many parents know they need to stay calm in difficult moments, but no one teaches them how to actually support their nervous system so that calm becomes possible. For moms who want additional support with this, I offer Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) listening therapy as an optional add on. SSP is a simple research-based listening program designed to help your nervous system feel safer and more regulated just listening to music. Many parents find that as their nervous system becomes more regulated, it becomes much easier to stay calm, respond thoughtfully, and handle challenging moments with their child. If this feels like something that could support you, you can purchase access once you are inside the program. Join Now! Join Confidently Mommin’ Together This program is for you if… This program is designed for moms who feel like they have tried a lot and are still stuck in the same behavior cycles at home. It may be a great fit for you if: Your child has big emotional reactions that seem to escalate quickly Simple requests turn into power struggles You find yourself repeating the same things over and over and nothing changes You want to stay calm but often feel triggered in the moment Your child may be strong willed, highly sensitive, has a diagnosis or ADHD or autism, or is simply harder to parent than you expected You know something deeper is going on with your child’s behavior and you want to understand it Many of the moms who join this program are thoughtful, loving parents who have already tried many strategies. They are not looking for quick fixes. They want to understand their child and create lasting change at home. "For the first time I feel like I understand what is actually happening with my son’s behavior instead of constantly reacting." — Emily, mom of four Join the Waitlist! This Program Works Best For Parents Who… This program is designed for parents who want to better understand their child’s behavior and are open to looking at things in a new way. It tends to work best for families who are willing to: Get curious about what is underneath their child’s behavior Practice new ways of responding, even when it feels different at first Focus on understanding before jumping to discipline Give the process time to work You do not need to be a perfect parent. You just need to be willing to learn, reflect, and try a new approach. Join Now! "Before this program I felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells with my son. The meltdowns were exhausting and I never knew how to respond. Melissa helped me understand what was actually driving the behavior and everything started to change. Our home feels calmer and I finally feel confident again." — Sofia, mom of two “For the first time I feel like I actually understand what is going on with my daughter instead of constantly reacting. The GUIDE process made everything make sense.” — Michelle, mom of a 9 year old Optional Additional Support Some parents choose to add additional support while they are in the program. Optional add ons include: Private 1:1 coaching sessions for individualized guidance Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) listening therapy to support nervous system regulation These options are completely optional and can be added at any time during the program if you decide you would like additional support. What Happens Next Once you join the program, you will receive immediate access to the online portal and information about the upcoming kickoff week. From there, we will begin applying the GUIDE framework to the real situations happening in your home. Investment $1,500 paid in full or 3 monthly payments of $550 Join Now! Investment Join Confidently Mommin’ Together This program is designed to give you the tools, clarity, and support you need to finally understand your child’s behavior and create meaningful change at home. Inside the program you will receive: Kickoff Week with five live calls to build your first behavior plan Weekly group coaching for ongoing guidance and support The GUIDE framework for understanding and changing behavior Access to the online portal with videos, trainings, and workbooks Your own login plus a partner login for another caregiver A private community of moms who understand what you are going through Practical tools you can start using right away Have questions? Apply for a consultation call! If you would like to talk through whether this program is the right fit for your family before enrolling, you can apply for a consultation with me. Apply for a Consultation Call Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on April 3. Many of the parents who join this program arrive feeling overwhelmed and unsure what to try next. Over time, they begin to understand their child’s behavior in a completely different way. Here are a few more experiences from families who have gone through the program. Before this program I felt like I was constantly reacting and second guessing everything I did. Learning how to understand my daughter’s behavior changed everything. Our home feels calmer and I feel like a different parent.” — Monica, mom of an 8 year old “The biggest shift for me was finally understanding why my son was reacting the way he was. Once that clicked, I knew how to respond instead of just getting frustrated.” — Megan, mom of two “I used to feel like every day was a battle. This program helped me slow down, understand what was actually happening, and respond in a way that made things better instead of worse.” — Danielle, mom of a 7 year old A Final Thought If you are here, chances are you have already tried a lot. You have read the books. You have tried the strategies and want things to get better for your child and for your family. Your child’s behavior is not random. There is always something driving it, and once you understand what is underneath the behavior, everything starts to make more sense. You do not have to figure this out alone. Join Confidently Mommin’ Together If you are ready to better understand your child’s behavior and start creating real change at home, I would love to support you inside the program. Join Now + Reserve My Spot If you would like to talk through whether this program is the right fit for your family before enrolling, you are always welcome to apply for a consultation. Apply for a Consultation Here FAQ How do I know this will work for me? If you have a strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse child, this program was created specifically to help you! This program is great for managing any and all challenging behaviors, including meltdowns, tantrums, rudeness, sleep challenges, picky eating, morning or homework routine struggles, hitting, throwing, kicking, not listening, and more. If you’d like to chat directly with Melissa about what’s going on with your children and if her program would work, book a free consultation here. When do the live calls take place? Kick-Off Week: Monday 4/6 @ 10am PT / 11 MT / 12 CT / 1 ET Tuesday 4/7 @ 5pm PT / 6 MT / 7 CT / 8 ET Wednesday 4/8 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Thursday 4/9 @ 9am PT / 10 MT / 11 CT / 12 ET Friday 4/10 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Weekly Calls: Wednesday 4/15 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Wednesday 4/22 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Tuesday 4/28 @ 5pm PT / 6 MT / 7 CT / 8 ET Wednesday 5/6 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Wednesday 5/13 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Wednesday 5/20 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Tuesday 5/26 @ 5pm PT / 6 MT / 7 CT / 8 ET Wednesday 6/3 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Wednesday 6/10 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Wednesday 6/17 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Wednesday 6/24 @ 11am PT / 12 MT / 1 CT / 2 ET Tuesday 6/30 @ 5pm PT / 6 MT / 7 CT / 8 ET What if I can’t attend the live calls? Many clients listen to the call REPLAYS. The replays will be posted in the Facebook group within 24 hours. You also have the option of posting in our Facebook group anytime to get help with exactly what you need. I’m scared to make the investment… I get it! Many of my clients have already invested in books, webinars or trainings that haven’t worked, and they are hesitant to invest in something else. This program is different because it is created specifically for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. I have worked with families just like yours for the past 22 years and used that experience and knowledge to create this program! I'm also a mom of two neurodiverse kids so I understand first hand the challenges and what actually works. My clients come in and get the results they want and more! It’s okay to be nervous or scared. It’s an investment after all! But decide that you’re going to come in and get exactly what you need so you can become the mom you’ve always wanted to be and give your kids the unique support they need. I’m scared I won’t follow through… This is normal. It can be scary to make an investment and not know if you’ll quit or not. But I can tell you that as your coach, my goal is to get you to the finish line. Expect regular coaching calls, consistent posts in our Facebook group, monthly challenges, and more. Having a coach and a community of other moms like you offers you that extra accountability. Can my partner join too? Confidently Mommin' Together is a program for moms only. The live group coaching and exclusive Facebook group are a safe environment for just moms to be vulnerable and receive support. However, clients are welcome to share all my content videos with their partner or other primary caregivers for your child to help everyone be on the same page. I also love supporting dads individually through my 1:1 coaching . How many moms will be in the group? Each group is kept at a max of 12 mamas so that each can get the individualized coaching and attention they need. 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Read real testimonials from parents who have worked with Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and parenting coach at Confidently Mommin’. Discover how her expert guidance has transformed families and empowered parents. Testimonials Sarah B. Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to handle some sensory issues my middle child is having. In a short 30 minute chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through! I would highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! Sarah M. Melissa is the absolute best. She genuinely cares and empathizes with Mom life! She helped us so much in sleep training our 4 month old, I couldn’t ask for a better coach thru any of it! Bindiya M. Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her. She provides just enough support and challenges you to be a better version of yourself. She is kind, funny and overall, a beautiful human being. Blessed to know her and have her in my life. Michelle C. I have been working with Melissa for over a year and with her help, I have made so many improvements in several areas of my life. She has helped me become aware of my own thinking patterns and how to change them. She has helped me with my parenting and with my classroom management. Working with her has been so beneficial and I would recommend it to anyone interested. Katherine G. Melissa truly wants to help parents grow and enjoy parenting! She has all the expertise and schooling and knows what she's talking about! Aside from her credentials, when you meet with her, you instantly enter a judgment-free zone, which is the best feeling and place to be when working on yourself. Priscilla C. I loved working with Melissa! Her knowledge, compassion and helpful tips came when we needed it the most with our deeply feeling child. She patiently answered all my questions and what ifs, and helped me see what I was missing. Melissa is so easy to talk to and personable. I am so glad to have her as a resource for what the next season of life brings! Kelly L. Melissa was a game changer in my Mom-Game for helping me build my relationship and understanding of my “Spicey Mama 2 Year Old”. Being a teacher and having a “Pretty Chill Little Dude” 5 year old, I thought (keyword thought) the second rodeo would be an easier one. Wrong. Having never experienced full blown tantrums in the grocery stores, backbreaking dance moves while trying to get Spicey Mama in her car seat, full on eye contact while slamming her head into the ground just for fun (? ), and total pet torture while smiling, I was pretty sure there was a switch on my child’s back that was incorrectly flipped from “Good” to (you know)… I cried nightly. My husband and I yelled daily. Still guilty about this one, but I asked God why my son didn’t have these issues, but my daughter did. I questioned all of my parenting and teaching philosophies and what we did wrong. Then came: Melissa. Melissa was my fresh breath of air. Melissa reminded me of what it means to be TWO. She brought me into a two year old’s understanding of what life is. She gave me perspective. After I gained a new understanding of what my toddler was seeing and feeling, we then strategized. We pinpointed specific issues needing to work on as a family and with S.M., and game planned. This is what we needed. There was no “quick fix” for my daughter, but long term intensive, loving attention and structured language to support the goals I set with Melissa. This was all done in ONE session! Parents, if you are in a place where you are struggling with parenting, want to set a goal, need a new perspective on how tiny humans work, or just need a fellow parent to laugh/cry/feel frustrated/let it out with, Melissa is the gal for the gig! Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Download my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Want your kids to listen without yelling? Get my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen Get the Guide Does this sound like you? You love your kids — but parenting feels like a constant battle. You’re yelling more than you want to. You’re second-guessing your every move. You feel like you’ve tried everything… and nothing’s worked. You’re Googling parenting tips late at night but still feel stuck. If that’s you — this guide is your first step to less stress and more connection! Get the Guide Here’s what you’ll get inside the free guide + webinar: Simple strategies that work for kids 18 months to 18 years Tools to increase cooperation (without yelling or bribing!) The replay of my most popular workshop: How to Get Kids to Listen A gentle, confidence-building approach to parenting Get the Guide Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Download my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Want your kids to listen without yelling? Get my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen Get the Guide Does this sound like you? You love your kids — but parenting feels like a constant battle. You’re yelling more than you want to. You’re second-guessing your every move. You feel like you’ve tried everything… and nothing’s worked. You’re Googling parenting tips late at night but still feel stuck. If that’s you — this guide is your first step to less stress and more connection! Get the Guide Here’s what you’ll get inside the free guide + webinar: Simple strategies that work for kids 18 months to 18 years Tools to increase cooperation (without yelling or bribing!) The replay of my most popular workshop: How to Get Kids to Listen A gentle, confidence-building approach to parenting Get the Guide Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

What if 2 minutes a day could help you feel calmer, lighter, and more connected? If you’re raising a child who is strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse… your days can feel intense, overwhelming, and sometimes just a lot. This challenge is for YOU. 30-Day Gratitude Challenge For Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive & Neurodiverse Kids Join the Challenge 2 Minutes of Gratitude. Feel Better All Day. 💛 What if 2 minutes a day could help you feel calmer, lighter, and more connected? If you’re raising a child who is strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse… your days can feel intense, overwhelming, and sometimes just a lot. This challenge is for YOU. Here's What You Get 📱 Daily Morning Texts (30 Days) Every morning, I’ll send you a short, simple prompt telling you what to notice that day. A small win A moment of peace A strength in your child Something you did well A moment of connection Just notice it. Then write it down that evening. You can also reply directly to the texts anytime to share what you notice or ask questions. I read every message 💛 📝 Beautiful Printable Workbook Each night you’ll take 1–2 minutes to write down what you noticed. This is where the transformation happens — not by forcing positivity, but by recognizing the moments that already exist. 💛 Immediate Benefits You’ll Feel Less overwhelm More patience More confidence More connection A calmer nervous system A better understanding of your child And a better relationship with yourself Most challenges are one way. This one isn’t. You don’t have to do it alone. ✨ Why Gratitude Works (Especially For Moms Like You) Gratitude isn’t fluffy. It’s science . It calms the autonomic nervous system. It reduces emotional reactivity. It increases resilience. It makes parenting easier — and more enjoyable. For moms of big-feeling kids, this is life-changing. Join Now 🎉 Join the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge It’s simple: 1️⃣ Sign up 2️⃣ Receive short daily texts you can actually respond to 3️⃣ Write your evening reflections 4️⃣ Feel better — truly — all day You can reply back to me anytime. I’m right there with you in this. Join Now 💛 Your Next Step: Join the 30-Day Challenge The simple strategies I will teach you will completely change how you think about your child's behavior, how you interact with them, and transform your connection with them forever. Learning these strategies right now is everything for your family. "Our home feels calmer — and my child’s behavior is already improving." After the triggering session, everything changed. Our mornings are calmer, my strong-willed 4-year-old has fewer problem behaviors, and I feel more confident. I highly recommend this program to other parents! – Jane Want More Personalized Support? If you’re longing for calm, consistency, and confidence with your strong-willed or sensitive child, I’d love to support you. Apply for a consultation below. Apply Here You’re doing an amazing job, Mama. Truly. Let’s make your days feel lighter — together. 💛

Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Confidently Mommin’ is proud to return as a sponsor at MomCon 2025 Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Confidently Mommin’ is proud to return as a sponsor at Mom Con 2025 Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids September 25—27 in Orlando, FL Stay in the Know! Sign up for exclusive Mom Con emails and be the first to learn about exclusive giveaways and how to connect with me at the event. As a thank-you for joining my email list, I’ll send you my free e-guide How to Get Kids to Listen. Get Your Free Guide Here “Melissa Schulz is the real deal!” Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B. I’m offering my signature 5 Minute Meltdown Makeover for FREE! Just you and me to tackle the biggest behavior challenge you’re having with your child (ages 0-18). Here’s how it works: You tell me the issue that’s overwhelming you most I uncover the real root of that behavior You walk away with one simple, doable step that actually works for your unique child There are limited spots and they fill quickly- so don’t wait. You’re just one conversation away from more peace and less chaos. Reserve Your Spot! Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! Don't miss my upcoming workshop! "Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her." Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her. She provides just enough support and challenges you to be a better version of yourself. She is kind, funny and overall, a beautiful human being. Blessed to know her and have her in my life. – Bindiya M Work With Me! Confidently Mommin’ Together is a 3 month group coaching program that has all the tips and support that moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids need to effectively manage challenging behaviors and to love mom life again. Reserve Your Spot! Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! VIP Code for BONUS Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! Reserve Your Spot Today! Work with me! Confidently Mommin’ Together is a 3 month group coaching program that has all the tips and support that moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids need to effectively manage challenging behaviors and to love mom life again. Reserve your spot today! Special MomCon BONUS Join by midnight 9/27 to get exclusive access to "The Parenting Replay", a live call with Melissa valued at $300. Got Questions? Or maybe you just want to chat with another mom who gets it? Come visit me at Booth 903! "I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately." I've always dreaded my alone time with him. He has been a difficult child from day one for me, until the last few months he’s really turning a corner! My son was having 5-6 tantrums a day that would last for up to an hour of full blown screaming, crying, foaming at the mouth, hitting, kicking, biting, and throwing things. I had no idea what the right reaction was. I tried staying calm, I tried yelling back, time-out, ignoring him, etc. I was losing my mind. I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately. All to say I highly recommend Melissa! Thank you so much for the months of parent coaching. It has SO paid off! – Lyndee S.

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Meet the founder of Confidently Mommin’ and discover her passion for empowering parents. Learn about her journey, qualifications, and commitment to providing expert parenting coaching and support tailored to your unique needs. About Me I am a mom of 3 with a Master’s Degree in Counseling. I’m a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with over 20 years of experience working with children with severe behavior disorders and providing support and training to their caregivers. I specialize in helping parents learn how to calmly and confidently manage any and all challenging behaviors by providing research based, practical tools and parenting best practices. I have successfully worked with hundreds of children and families across the country. I use a unique blend of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), Polyvagal theory, neuroscience, mindfulness and mindset work in my coaching practice. I have expertise in supporting children with high needs, including strong willed children, deeply feeling children, and/or children with a diagnosis or neurodiversity. More About My Professional Background More About My Personal Life Featured On Living Your Legacy with Michelle Slaney-Trovato Podcast Episode 90 Living your Legacy Podcast Listen to it on Spotify Listen to it on Apple Podcast Living Your Legacy with Michelle Slaney-Trovato Podcast Episode 90 Living your Legacy Podcast Listen to it on Spotify Listen to it on Apple Podcast Been There Got Out IG Live Interview Been There Got Out Listen to interview Stress Free IEP Podcast with Frances Shefter Watch on YouTube Listen to interview Listen to interview More About My Professional Background I started my career 22 years ago working in group homes for children who had been abused, in shelters for teenage prostitutes, and in teen drug rehabilitation homes. I then worked at a school for children with emotional disturbances, at first in the classroom and later as the Director of Behavioral Services overseeing their program for students with moderate to severe autism. I later served as the Director of Behavioral Services at a large organization serving children and adults with autism in both school and group home settings. In 2009, I founded my first company, which provided in-home behavioral health (ABA) therapy for children with autism. The company grew to have 75 employees and consistently won awards for being one of the best companies to work for in the nation, and providing the highest quality ABA services in the area. I founded Confidently Mommin’ in 2020 to serve families as a Parenting Coach. Using my extensive education and background, I use proven processes to help parents know how to calmly and confidently manage any and all of their child’s challenging behaviors and enjoy their family time. I have been a guest lecturer at Azusa Pacific University and San Jose State University and have supervised BCBA candidates internationally. I am a popular speaker on parenting and behavioral strategies. More About My Personal Life My husband Brian and I have been married for 17 years. We have 3 hilarious, wonderful, and exhausting children and a sweet pit bull named Goose. I am very involved in my church and serve as a leader in the mom’s ministry. I volunteer as a Girl Scout Troop Leader for my daughter’s troop. I am a runner and love to be outdoors, read, and spend time with friends and family. I am obsessed with personal development and growth. I never miss an Office Ladies Podcast or a Marvel movie, and would live at Disneyland if I could. Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

Discover personalized parenting coaching and support with Confidently Mommin’. Empower your journey as a parent with expert guidance, resources, and community connection. Start transforming your family dynamic today! Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Get Free Support in Your Inbox Schedule A Free Consultation Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " As Seen On Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Welcome to Confidently Mommin'! Helping parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodivergent kids calmly, confidently and effectively respond to their child’s challenging behaviors and enjoy their family time. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Best Parenting Coach in the United States for 2025 Evergreen Awards recognizes Melissa Schulz as the Best Parenting Coach in the United States for 2025 for her outstanding leadership, innovation, and dedication to excellence in the parenting and family support space through Confidently Mommin’. Read More LESS... Yelling Tantrums Hitting Meltdowns Defiance Stress Walking on eggshells Marital tension MORE... Laughter Smooth mornings Happy family dinners Bedtime cuddles Energy Cherished memories Connection Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Resources Read More Check back soon Once posts are published, you’ll see them here. Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

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