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  • Confidently Mommin’ Together

    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Your Next Steps Thank you so much for joining Confidently Mommin’ Together — I’m thrilled to walk this journey with you. Your Welcome + Orientation Email is on its way to your inbox now. Inside you’ll find the orientation form and the next steps to get started in the program. Please take a moment to check your inbox (and your spam/promotions tab just in case) and complete the orientation form when you receive it. To be sure you don’t miss anything important, please add Melissa@MelissaSchulz.com to your contacts or safe sender list. I can’t wait to get started! 💛

  • How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies

    Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Download my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Want your kids to listen without yelling? Get my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen Get the Guide Does this sound like you? You love your kids — but parenting feels like a constant battle. You’re yelling more than you want to. You’re second-guessing your every move. You feel like you’ve tried everything… and nothing’s worked. You’re Googling parenting tips late at night but still feel stuck. If that’s you — this guide is your first step to less stress and more connection! Get the Guide Here’s what you’ll get inside the free guide + webinar: Simple strategies that work for kids 18 months to 18 years Tools to increase cooperation (without yelling or bribing!) The replay of my most popular workshop: How to Get Kids to Listen A gentle, confidence-building approach to parenting Get the Guide Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

  • Join the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge

    What if 2 minutes a day could help you feel calmer, lighter, and more connected? If you’re raising a child who is strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse… your days can feel intense, overwhelming, and sometimes just a lot. This challenge is for YOU. 30-Day Gratitude Challenge For Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive & Neurodiverse Kids Join the Challenge 2 Minutes of Gratitude. Feel Better All Day. 💛 What if 2 minutes a day could help you feel calmer, lighter, and more connected? If you’re raising a child who is strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse… your days can feel intense, overwhelming, and sometimes just a lot. This challenge is for YOU. Here's What You Get 📱 Daily Morning Texts (30 Days) Every morning, I’ll send you a short, simple prompt telling you what to notice that day. A small win A moment of peace A strength in your child Something you did well A moment of connection Just notice it. Then write it down that evening. You can also reply directly to the texts anytime to share what you notice or ask questions. I read every message 💛 📝 Beautiful Printable Workbook Each night you’ll take 1–2 minutes to write down what you noticed. This is where the transformation happens — not by forcing positivity, but by recognizing the moments that already exist. 💛 Immediate Benefits You’ll Feel Less overwhelm More patience More confidence More connection A calmer nervous system A better understanding of your child And a better relationship with yourself Most challenges are one way. This one isn’t. You don’t have to do it alone. ✨ Why Gratitude Works (Especially For Moms Like You) Gratitude isn’t fluffy. It’s science . It calms the autonomic nervous system. It reduces emotional reactivity. It increases resilience. It makes parenting easier — and more enjoyable. For moms of big-feeling kids, this is life-changing. Join Now 🎉 Join the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge It’s simple: 1️⃣ Sign up 2️⃣ Receive short daily texts you can actually respond to 3️⃣ Write your evening reflections 4️⃣ Feel better — truly — all day You can reply back to me anytime. I’m right there with you in this. Join Now 💛 Your Next Step: Join the 30-Day Challenge The simple strategies I will teach you will completely change how you think about your child's behavior, how you interact with them, and transform your connection with them forever. Learning these strategies right now is everything for your family. "Our home feels calmer — and my child’s behavior is already improving." After the triggering session, everything changed. Our mornings are calmer, my strong-willed 4-year-old has fewer problem behaviors, and I feel more confident. I highly recommend this program to other parents! – Jane Want More Personalized Support? If you’re longing for calm, consistency, and confidence with your strong-willed or sensitive child, I’d love to support you. Apply for a consultation below. Apply Here You’re doing an amazing job, Mama. Truly. Let’s make your days feel lighter — together. 💛

  • MonCon 2025 | Confidently Mommin’

    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Confidently Mommin’ is proud to return as a sponsor at MomCon 2025 Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Confidently Mommin’ is proud to return as a sponsor at Mom Con 2025 Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids September 25—27 in Orlando, FL Stay in the Know! Sign up for exclusive Mom Con emails and be the first to learn about exclusive giveaways and how to connect with me at the event. As a thank-you for joining my email list, I’ll send you my free e-guide How to Get Kids to Listen. Get Your Free Guide Here “Melissa Schulz is the real deal!” Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B. I’m offering my signature 5 Minute Meltdown Makeover for FREE! Just you and me to tackle the biggest behavior challenge you’re having with your child (ages 0-18). Here’s how it works: You tell me the issue that’s overwhelming you most I uncover the real root of that behavior You walk away with one simple, doable step that actually works for your unique child There are limited spots and they fill quickly- so don’t wait. You’re just one conversation away from more peace and less chaos. Reserve Your Spot! Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! Don't miss my upcoming workshop! "Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her." Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her. She provides just enough support and challenges you to be a better version of yourself. She is kind, funny and overall, a beautiful human being. Blessed to know her and have her in my life. – Bindiya M Work With Me! Confidently Mommin’ Together is a 3 month group coaching program that has all the tips and support that moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids need to effectively manage challenging behaviors and to love mom life again. Reserve Your Spot! Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! VIP Code for BONUS Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! Reserve Your Spot Today! Work with me! Confidently Mommin’ Together is a 3 month group coaching program that has all the tips and support that moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids need to effectively manage challenging behaviors and to love mom life again. Reserve your spot today! Special MomCon BONUS Join by midnight 9/27 to get exclusive access to "The Parenting Replay", a live call with Melissa valued at $300. Got Questions? Or maybe you just want to chat with another mom who gets it? Come visit me at Booth 903! "I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately." I've always dreaded my alone time with him. He has been a difficult child from day one for me, until the last few months he’s really turning a corner! My son was having 5-6 tantrums a day that would last for up to an hour of full blown screaming, crying, foaming at the mouth, hitting, kicking, biting, and throwing things. I had no idea what the right reaction was. I tried staying calm, I tried yelling back, time-out, ignoring him, etc. I was losing my mind. I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately. All to say I highly recommend Melissa! Thank you so much for the months of parent coaching. It has SO paid off! – Lyndee S.

  • Confidently Mommin’ Together

    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids The December BOGO Coaching Bonus A special, never-before-offered opportunity! Purchase a 1:1 coaching package in December ($6000 investment), and get a FREE membership to my group coaching program, Confidently Mommin’ Together, for the January cohort ($2000 value)! Here's What's Included: — Weekly Group Coaching Calls (come live or catch the replay!) — Exclusive Facebook Group for a supportive and encouraging community of people who get it — Access to my online course for quick actionable how-to videos Here’s why this is the best thing ever… DOUBLE your transformation for free! Joining the group will add steroids to your progress without costing more or adding more work. You’ll find your people! Your lifelong BFFs are waiting inside this group for you. So many of my 1:1 clients feel like they are the only ones facing their challenges, while I actually coach people on the same things over and over! Experience your “ME TOO!” moment when someone else describes the exact same thing you’ve been struggling with. You’re not alone anymore! This is a power combo: you’ll get the individualized support you need through our 1:1 sessions, PLUS you can learn the foundational skills in my online course and hear other people get coached and ask questions you didn’t even realize you had. Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! If you are new to me, there is no better time to get started! You’ll get double the support you need right off the bat, for no additional cost. If you are a current 1:1 client, you already know the value of working together! Everyone is different, but I’ve found that for most people, the second 1:1 package is where even more magic happens as we continue to build on the foundation and progress from the first session. Imagine how you’ll feel and show up in your parenting during the holiday stress when you know you’ve invested in ongoing coaching for yourself and get a bonus of group coaching in the New Year! Your body and nervous system can finally exhale knowing your support is continuing. To join, just email or text me “BOGO ” and we’ll get you signed up! Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B.

  • The 5 Day Calm Mom Reset | Melissa Shulz | Confidently Mommin’

    For moms raising strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse kids who love their child deeply but feel overwhelmed by the big behaviors at home. In this free five day reset, you will stop guessing, understand what is really driving your child’s big behaviors, and finally begin breaking the cycle. Group Coaching When nothing seems to work with your strong willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse child… finally understand the behavior and know exactly what to do next. Subheadline: Inside this coaching program you will learn the proven system that helps moms stop reacting, understand what is actually driving their child’s behavior, and create real lasting change at home. Join Us! Spaces limited/countdown- no changes You Love Your Child More Than Anything But parenting them feels harder than you ever expected. The meltdowns seem to come out of nowhere. The power struggles drain your energy. You repeat yourself over and over and somehow nothing changes. You try to stay calm, sometimes you succeed, but other times you hear yourself yelling and immediately feel awful. You read the books, try the parenting strategies, promise yourself tomorrow will be different, and yet the same cycle keeps happening. Part of you wonders: What am I missing? The truth is, many strong willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids do not respond to traditional parenting strategies, and not because you are doing something wrong, or because your child is broken. It is because their nervous system and brain work differently. Until you understand why the behavior is happening, the strategies rarely work. Maybe you recognize some of this: Your child melts down over things that seem small Simple requests turn into arguments Screens cause constant battles You feel like you are walking on eggshells You want to stay calm but keep getting triggered If this sounds like your house lately, you are in the right place. What to Expect By the end of this free reset, you will: Understand why the big behaviors keep happening Feel more steady and less reactive in the moment See your child’s behavior in a completely different way Know what to try next instead of guessing Feel hopeful again Register Now Hi, I'm Melissa I help moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids understand big behaviors and finally break the cycle at home. My work combines behavior science, nervous system awareness, and real world parenting in a way that feels practical and doable. I’m a national speaker and award-winning parenting coach and I’ve supported hundreds of families navigating big behaviors at home. I’m also a mom of 3 with neurodiverse and strong-willed kids of my own. I know how exhausting it can feel when nothing seems to work, and I’ve created a proven system that makes lasting change possible. Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA Behavior Expert & Parenting Coach Named “Best Parenting Coach in the United States in 2025” March 16 to March 20, 2026 How It Works Over five days inside a private Facebook group, you will receive: One short video you can watch (10-15 min) One live group coaching call Simple shifts you can try immediately A supportive space with other moms who get it This is designed to feel supportive, not overwhelming. And it’s free! Register Now Why This is Different? Most parenting advice focuses on what to do in the moment. Charts. Consequences. Scripts. Staying calm. But if the same big behaviors keep happening, it is not because you need more tips. Big behaviors are not random. They follow patterns that most parents were never taught to see. When you understand what is really happening and change your response in the right places, the behavior begins to change too. That is what this free reset will help you do. This free reset is for you if: You are exhausted from the same big behaviors happening over and over You keep wondering what you are missing You feel guilty after you react You know your child is not “bad” but you do not know what to do differently You are ready for something to change You Do Not Have to Keep Living in the Same Cycle You are not failing. Your child is not broken. And this is not random. There is a reason the big behaviors keep happening. And when you understand it, everything starts to feel more manageable. Calm is possible. Change is possible. And it starts here. Join us inside The 5 Day Calm Mom Reset. Register Now Kick-Off Week All times are PST Mon 4/6 at 10 am Tues 4/7 at 5pm Wed 4/8 at 11 am Thurs 4/9 at 9 am Fri 4/10 at 11 am Weekly Calls 4/15 at 11 am 4/22 at 11 am 4/28 at 5pm 5/6 at 11 am 5/13 at 11 am 5/20 at 11 am 5/26 at 5pm 6/3 at 11 am 6/10 at 11 am 6/17 at 11 am 6/24 at 11 am 6/30 at 5 pm Questions? Click the button below to contact me directly with any questions you have! Contact Me

  • Group Coaching | Melissa Schulz | Confidently Mommin’

    Join Melissa Schulz's Group Coaching program to connect with like-minded individuals, gain practical tools for growth, and work towards your goals in a supportive environment. Unlock your potential with expert guidance and collaborative insights. Yell Less, Smile More Confidently Mommin’ Together Support for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse kids Join Now Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on March 28. Hi, I’m Melissa Schulz I’m a Parenting Coach I know how challenging it can be to have a child who is strong-willed, deeply feeling, or has a diagnosis like ADHD or autism. You love your kid so much, but are overwhelmed, stressed out, and frustrated with their behaviors. They won’t listen, the outbursts are explosive, and it’s a constant battle to complete daily routines. You want to enjoy your time with your kids. But how do you get them to listen? What do you do when they are misbehaving? How do you stop the tantrums and outbursts? Will anything actually work for your child? You are in the right place! I made Confidently Mommin’ Together for YOU. This is where you get a process that will actually WORK to… Understand why Stop pulling your hair out wondering why your child is behaving that way. Understand exactly what’s going on and what they are trying to tell you. Stop behavior problems No more yelling, guessing, or trying random strategies from the internet. Start confidently and effectively managing any and all challenging behaviors. Stay calm no matter what Release the anger, frustration, stress, and overwhelm you feel when your child is misbehaving so you can effortlessly respond. Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on March 28. "Melissa was a game changer in my mom game" Melissa was a game changer in my mom game for helping me build my relationship and understanding of my spicy two year old. Full blown tantrums in the grocery store, backbreaking dance moves to get her in her car seat, full on eye contact while slamming her head into the ground, and pet torture while smiling…I cried nightly and yelled daily. Melissa was my breath of fresh air. She brought me into a two year old’s understanding of what life is and gave me perspective. There was no “quick fix” but long term intensive, loving attention and structured language to support my daughter. Parents if you are struggling with parenting, Melissa is the gal for the gig! - Kelly L. "Melissa is one of the most competent and passionate coaches I’ve ever met" Melissa is truly one of the most competent and passionate coaches and persons I’ve ever met. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience that can help us all with the most important challenge we will ever have, which is raising children. If you’re mulling whether to give her parenting coaching a try, reach out and talk to her and I can confidently say you’ll love her! and more. - Sam O "Aside from her credentials, when you meet with (Melissa), you instantly enter a judgment-free zone" Melissa truly wants to help parents grow and enjoy parenting! She has all the expertise and schooling and knows what she’s talking about! Aside from her credentials, when you meet with her, you instantly enter a judgment-free zone, which is the best feeling and place to be when working on yourself. - Katherine G. "Her knowledge, compassion, and helpful tips came when we needed it most with our deeply feeling child" Melissa truly wants to help parents grow and enjoy parenting! She has all the expertise and schooling and knows what she’s talking about! Aside from her credentials, when you meet with her, you instantly enter a judgment-free zone, which is the best feeling and place to be when working on yourself. - Priscilla C. Confidently Mommin’ Together is the place for moms of strong-willed, deeply feeling, and neurodiverse kids to get support, expert advice, and become the mom they want to be. Confidently Mommin’ Together is a six month group coaching program that has the resources and support every mom of a high needs child is desperate for. Take the guesswork out of parenting your child’s challenging behaviors. No more googling or trying to piece together all the random tips you find on Instagram. Trying to figure out your child’s behaviors on your own can take years, but imagine knowing exactly what to do (and what not to do) to respond to your unique child’s behaviors in a way that works and see their progress every day. Inside this exclusive group coaching program, you will get a step-by-step process and personalized expert support so you can: Stay calm no matter what your child is doing Know exactly how to handle your child’s behaviors Create a calm home environment for your family Stop walking on eggshells and living for bedtime Connect and deeply understand your child Enjoy your family time Join Now What Do We Cover? Confidently Mommin’ Together is the only program of its kind for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. You will learn the best ways to respond to any and all challenging behaviors in a way that actually WORKS for your child’s personality. Schedule a consult to see if it’s right for you “Melissa Schulz is the real deal!” Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B. Here’s what you’ll get inside Confidently Mommin’ Together: Coaching Receive individualized support by behavior expert Melissa Schulz in group coaching calls on Zoom to get help on exactly what YOU need right now. Plus, get access to the recordings of all previous calls. Content Each week we will focus on a different topic that all moms of high needs kids struggle with. Community Meet your new BFFS! Join a judgment- free, supportive community of moms going through exactly what you are. Create your village in our exclusive facebook group and on our group coaching calls and get accountability from fun monthly challenges. Join Now Here’s what you’ll learn: Manage Any Behavior Problem Get to the root of why your child is misbehaving Follow the proven 5-step process to effectively respond to any and all challenging behaviors Confidently respond to behavior problems in a way that works Stay Calm No Matter What Identify what triggers your feelings of anger, overwhelm, frustration, overstimulation, worry, etc. Learn how to handle your emotions in a healthy way Use a proven process to stop feeling triggered and genuinely calm no matter what your child is doing Deeply Understand and Connect with Your Child Know exactly why your child is misbehaving and how to help Understand your child’s perspective and what they are trying to learn and communicate Respond in a way that creates a deep connection between you and your child that will last their entire life Drop The Mom Guilt Stop the vicious cycle of trying your best to stay calm, yelling, and then beating yourself up once and for all Recognize the tape of mean things your brain is telling you on repeat all day long and learn to turn it off Learn to treat yourself like someone you love Create Household Systems that do the work for you Create a Discipline Plan so you know exactly how to respond when your kids misbehave in a way that will actually work for their personalities Avoid power struggles over screen time, meals, homework, getting ready for school etc. by creating effective systems and routines Support your child in learning independence instead of nagging them to complete daily tasks Have More Time and Energy Enjoy self-care challenges that will help you prioritize your own physical and mental health Experience so much more emotional energy when you drop the mom guilt Add hours to your week to do the things you want to do when you stop having to manage lengthy meltdowns and arguments Join Now "I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately." I've always dreaded my alone time with him. He has been a difficult child from day one for me, until the last few months he’s really turning a corner! My son was having 5-6 tantrums a day that would last for up to an hour of full blown screaming, crying, foaming at the mouth, hitting, kicking, biting, and throwing things. I had no idea what the right reaction was. I tried staying calm, I tried yelling back, time-out, ignoring him, etc. I was losing my mind. I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately. All to say I highly recommend Melissa! Thank you so much for the months of parent coaching. It has SO paid off! – Lyndee S. Learn how to think, feel, and show up every day as the mom you want to be You are going to know exactly what parenting strategy will work best for each unique child and personality. You won’t need to consult Dr. Google ever again. This program is different from all the things you’ve tried before. Most of my clients have read all the parenting books, watched all the reels, stayed up late googling different strategies, and have tried all the things but nothing ever works. Not only will you get expert advice on exactly which strategy to use for which kid for which behavior at which age and stage and learn how to do that yourself effortlessly, but we are also going to change your perspective on yourself as a mom and on your child’s behavior. Parenting a child that is strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse can be hard. It feels like scaling a mountain. At the same time, our brain gives us all sorts of negative thoughts about ourselves and our parenting. “I'm not good enough.” “I am a terrible mom.” “I can’t believe I yelled AGAIN.” These lies play on repeat in our head and suck away all of our energy and joy. Each negative thought is a brick in a backpack you are carrying around. While trying to scale a mountain. I’ll teach you a proven process to stop listening to those negative thoughts and drop the guilt. You will learn how to finally put that heavy backpack down and just focus on scaling the mountain of parenting. And since you now know exactly how to respond to the challenging behaviors, the mountain is a bit less steep than before. Once you know how to do this, you will have more energy. You’ll be able to really enjoy your children and this phase of parenting instead of just trying to survive. And you will know how to do it for the rest of your life! "Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her." Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her. She provides just enough support and challenges you to be a better version of yourself. She is kind, funny and overall, a beautiful human being. Blessed to know her and have her in my life. – Bindiya M Everything is waiting for you inside. Investment $2,000 Choose from a single payment of $2,000 (Save 10%!) or six monthly payments of $370. Your Six Month Program Includes: Live Coaching Calls via Zoom (3 each month) A private Facebook community Weekly parenting topics Monthly health and self-care challenges Join Now Have questions? Book a free consultation call! Book a complimentary consultation and let’s chat about exactly how Confidently Mommin’ Together will help support you and your family. Schedule a Free Consultation Call Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on March 28. "Working with her has been so beneficial and I would recommend it to anyone interested!" I have been working with Melissa for over a year and with her help, I have made so many improvements in several areas of my life. She has helped me become aware of my own thinking patterns and how to change them. She has helped me with my parenting and with my classroom management. Working with her has been so beneficial and I would recommend it to anyone interested. – Michelle C Join Now + Reserve My Spot Book a Free Consultation Call How do I know this will work for me? If you have a strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse child, this program was created specifically to help you! This program is great for managing any and all challenging behaviors, including meltdowns, tantrums, rudeness, sleep challenges, picky eating, morning or homework routine struggles, hitting, throwing, kicking, not listening, and more. If you’d like to chat directly with Melissa about what’s going on with your children and if her program would work, book a free consultation here. When do the live calls take place? Bonus Calls: Thursday 3/6 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 3/11 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Thursday 3/20 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET Group Call Schedule: Wednesday 4/2 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 4/8 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Wednesday 4/23 @ 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET Wednesday 5/7 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 5/13 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Thursday 5/22 @ 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET Wednesday 6/4 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 6/10 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Wednesday 6/18 @ 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET Wednesday 7/2 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 7/8 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Thursday 7/17 @ 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET Wednesday 8/6 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 8/12 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Thursday 8/21 @ 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET Wednesday 9/3 @ 9am PT/10 MT/11 CT/12 ET Tuesday 9/9 @ 4pm PT/ 5 MT/ 6 CT/ 7 ET Thursday 9/18 @ 9am PT/ 10 MT/ 11 CT/ 12 ET What if I can’t attend the live calls? Many clients listen to the call REPLAYS. The replays will be posted in the Facebook group within 24 hours. You also have the option of posting in our Facebook group anytime to get help with exactly what you need. I’m scared to make the investment… I get it! Many of my clients have already invested in books, webinars or trainings that haven’t worked, and they are hesitant to invest in something else. This program is different because it is created specifically for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. I have worked with families just like yours for the past 22 years and used that experience and knowledge to create this program! I'm also a mom of two neurodiverse kids so I understand first hand the challenges and what actually works. My clients come in and get the results they want and more! It’s okay to be nervous or scared. It’s an investment after all! But decide that you’re going to come in and get exactly what you need so you can become the mom you’ve always wanted to be and give your kids the unique support they need. I’m scared I won’t follow through… This is normal. It can be scary to make an investment and not know if you’ll quit or not. But I can tell you that as your coach, my goal is to get you to the finish line. Expect regular coaching calls, consistent posts in our Facebook group, monthly challenges, and more. Having a coach and a community of other moms like you offers you that extra accountability. Can my partner join too? Confidently Mommin' Together is a program for moms only. The live group coaching and exclusive Facebook group are a safe environment for just moms to be vulnerable and receive support. However, clients are welcome to share all my content videos with their partner or other primary caregivers for your child to help everyone be on the same page. I also love supporting dads individually through my 1:1 coaching . How many moms will be in the group? Each group is kept at a max of 12 mamas so that each can get the individualized coaching and attention they need. The 12 spots fill up quickly so reserve yours now! Join Now + Reserve My Spot Book a Free Consultation Call

  • Media | Confidently Mommin’

    View Melissa Schulz’s media page featuring podcast appearances, interviews, press mentions, and awards celebrating her professional achievements. Contact Us Media Explore a curated collection of podcast appearances, media features, and awards highlighting Melissa Schulz’s work in parenting, neurodiversity, mindset, and family dynamics. Here you’ll find interviews, featured articles, and press coverage where Melissa shares her insights and expertise, along with notable recognitions and “As Seen In” mentions from respected publications and platforms. Awards / As Seen In The Enterprise World Melissa Schulz was featured on the cover of The Enterprise World as The Most Visionary Leader Driving Positive Change in Parenting. More Info Best Parenting Coach Melissa Schulz, was named Best Parenting Coach in the United States by Evergreen Awards for 2025 More Info USA Today Feature Melissa Schulz was featured in USA Today as one of the coaches helping redefine mindset, performance, and success. More Info Marquis Who’s Who Melissa Schulz’s recognition in Marquis Who’s Who highlights her professional achievements and leadership in her field. More Info Good Morning US Feature Melissa was featured on Good Morning US, sharing how she helps parents of neurodiverse children move from chaos to calm and thrive. More Info USA News Feature Melissa Schulz was featured in USA News, discussing how her coaching helps transform family dynamics and spread a sense of calm. More Info Macaroni Kid Article Melissa Schulz was featured on Macaroni Kid Roseville, sharing practical strategies for turning your day around in just 10 minutes. More Info Gold Country Media Melissa Schulz was featured in Gold Country Media, highlighting her work as a Rocklin-based parenting coach supporting families. More Info Legacy Woman Magazine Featured in Legacy Woman Magazine (February 2026) with “Redefining Legacy: From Generational Wealth to Generational Health.” More Info Authority Magazine Melissa Schulz was featured in Authority Magazine's series: How to Raise Children Who Feel Loved and Connected. More Info Listen to All of Melissa’s Guest Podcast Appearances in One Place Podcasts Healthy Post Natal Body Melissa Schulz appeared on The Healthy Post Natal Body Podcast, sharing insights on parenting and wellbeing. HerStory Circle Podcast Featured on the HerStory Circle podcast, sharing insights on challenging behavior and emotional regulation. Overcaffeinated and Out of Effs Melissa Schulz was featured on Overcaffeinated and Out of Effs, sharing her story of motherhood and resilience. The Motherhood Experience Melissa Schulz was on The Motherhood Experience Podcast, where she discussed her experiences and insights on motherhood. Your Purpose, Your Power, A Journey to Authenticity Melissa spoke about supporting the neurodiverse community and practical strategies for families navigating challenges. Stress Free IEP Melissa Schulz was featured on Stress Free IEP Podcast, discussing empowerment through understanding in parenting and special education planning. Living Your Legacy Melissa Schulz spoke about responding calmly to children’s behavior and building a positive, lasting family legacy. Been There Got Out Melissa Schulz shared her approach to parenting support and practical strategies for families. Life WellLived Podcast Melissa was on Life Well Lived Podcast, discussing how to parent sensitive and strong-willed children without losing yourself. Beyond the Struggle: Rise & Thrive Featured on Beyond the Struggle Rise and Thrive, discussing how to raise neurodiverse kids with calm, connection, and confidence. Book 101 Review: Melissa Schulz was featured on Book 101 Review, sharing insights and reflections in a live conversation. Complex Kids, Simple Solutions This conversation is deeply validating for parents who are exhausted from “doing everything right” and still struggling. Healing for the Soul Podcast Practical strategies for parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. The KAJ Masterclass LIVE Why do conventional parenting strategies fall flat, leaving parents feeling guilty and overwhelmed? Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Mastering Co-Regulation for the Neurodiverse Child The Language Of Play Have A Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, or Neurodiverse Child? This Is For You! PodMatch Reviews Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

  • Real Life Organization System | Melissa Shulz | Confidently Mommin’

    The Real Life Organization System: 30-Day Live Implementation Series Feel organized, present with your kids, and on top of life; even when it’s full. How busy parents get things done Feel organized, present with your kids, and on top of life; even when it’s full Join Now The Real Life Organization System 30-Day Challenge January 28th—February 28th You’re not behind because you’re lazy or disorganized; you’re behind because you don’t have a system that actually works for busy parents. You’ve tried so many times to get organized. You have a pile of planners that were never quite right, sticky notes everywhere, reminders going off all day, a hundred unread emails, and despite your best efforts everything still feels chaotic. No matter how much you do, there’s never enough time. You’re always behind, always carrying the mental load, and always exhausted by the constant demands of parenting, household responsibilities, and work (whether your work is paid, unpaid or both). You’re terrified of dropping a ball or forgetting something important, and feel terrible when that inevitably happens again. You know that scene in Cheaper by the Dozen where the mom is handing each kid exactly what they need as they walk out the door? She’s calm, on top of it, and doesn’t miss a thing, despite all that she’s managing. One month from now, that can be you! (A slightly more realistic version of that of course, probably with less than 12 kids). You will have a clear and uncluttered mind. You will feel clear about your priorities for the day; knowing exactly what needs your attention and what can wait, with a simple system you trust to hold everything so it’s not all living in your head. Your week feels intentional instead of chaotic. You’re no longer constantly forgetting things or putting out fires. You’re more present with your kids, less snappy at the end of the day, and no longer carrying the quiet fear that something important is slipping through the cracks. Life is still full, but now it feels manageable. And for the first time in forever, you feel on top of it instead of buried under it. Join Now Early in my career, I was obsessed with productivity and organization and spent years studying all the organization systems out there. What I quickly realized was that most of what was taught was created by people who weren’t also parenting, managing households, or carrying the mental load that so many moms carry. None of it truly worked for my life, despite my best efforts. So I built my own system! One designed for real life, real responsibilities, and real nervous systems. When I first implemented it, I was shocked at how light and clear my mind felt! I spent the first week positive that I was forgetting something because the clarity was so foreign to me. But I wasn’t forgetting anything, I was just finally organized in a way that worked! I’ve been using this system for over 10 years and coaching my employees, parents, and business owners through it with great success. This course is the first time I’ve put it all together in one clear, supportive training so more parents can experience that same sense of clarity and control. Hi! I'm Melissa! ...and over the past decade I’ve built two companies from the ground up while being present with and raising my 3 kids (2 are neurospicy with high needs). I grew my first company into a large organization with over 75 employees, and while running my businesses, I’ve always carried the realities of parenting, household responsibilities, and the emotional labor that comes with family life. Friends, family and clients often ask me how I “do it all” and seem so on top of things, and the honest answer is that I don’t do it all. I use an amazing organization system that actually fits real life with kids. Join The Real Life Organization System 30 Day Challenge A 30-day guided implementation with short, on-demand video lessons, workbooks, and live coaching calls to help busy parents get organized for real life. I’ll walk you step by step how to clear the clutter, and get and stay organized. It’s more than just a productivity system. It’s a capacity-support system. Join Now If you know me, you know my passion is supporting parents of high needs kids (strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids) so they can confidently and effectively manage any and all challenging behaviors while building a deep parent-child connection. When our kids have big needs, we as parents are asked to grow our own capacity: emotionally, mentally, and practically, so we can meet those big needs without burning out. When our brain feels chaotic and time always feels scarce, we become more rushed, more stressed, and more impatient, and even the best parenting strategies stop working. One of the most important foundations for being the parent you want to be is creating more usable time and mental space through an organization system that actually fits your life. If you’ve tried all the planners, apps, and tips and still felt like something was missing, this is the piece you’ve been searching for. You’re not behind because you’re doing it wrong. You’re behind because you’re doing too much without the right system. Trying harder won’t fix it. Having the right system will. Join Now I’m giving you the exact process that I use with my clients every day. You will learn 1 See where all your time and energy are actually going. 2 Get ALL the things out of your brain and into an easy to use system. 3 Learn to prioritize what matters most. 4 Create daily and weekly habits that keep the system working. 5 Create a flexible family flow with just the right amount of structure for life with unpredictable kids. Here's What You Get Start With Awareness: Where Your Time and Energy Are Really Going Most parents I talk to have a never-ending to-do list. They work so hard all day, yet somehow never seem to cross anything off. That’s why we start by auditing where your time and energy are actually going right now. We slow down and give you credit for all the things you’re already doing (often without even realizing it), including the massive mental load you’re carrying around in your head. Clarify What Actually Matters to You Next, we pick your priorities. I take you through an exercise that makes it easy to see what truly matters the most to you, and then you set realistic goals in just a few key areas. Burn-out often comes from constantly doing things that aren’t in line with your personal values (think doing what you think you “should” do and not what’s actually more important to you.) Get Everything Out of Your Head Once you have a clear picture about what you’re doing now and what you want to do, we do a big brain dump. Our brains are awesome at a lot of things, but managing our to-do list is not one of them. Wouldn't it be great if your brain could remind you that you need more bread when you’re actually at the grocery store, instead of reminding you at 2 am? Just like a computer, the more open tabs you have in your brain, the slower things are going to run and the more mistakes you’ll make. I take you through a process to get ALL the things out of your brain so you can properly organize them, and let your brain go back to doing what it does best. We even go through all the post-its, planners, and emails (yes, emails too!) so nothing is floating around anymore. Pushing Through the Overwhelm Sometimes clients feel a little overwhelmed at this point; and that’s completely normal. It’s like opening a messy closet that’s always been there, but you’ve avoided looking at it because it felt like too much. The difference here is that my system is designed to support you through that moment. Built into it are tools that help you stay regulated, avoid overwhelm, and keep moving forward, so you don’t stop halfway through and miss the beautiful, organized closet on the other side. Choose and Set Up Your Organization Tool Once everything is out, we organize it. I help you pick the best organization tool that works for your life and we set it up! The tool you choose will become your best friend and your secret weapon in managing all the things. Sort Everything Simply Then we sort. I teach you exactly what to do with every single to-do item using 4 simple categories. No more staring at a giant list wondering where to even start. Maintain the System With Ease At this point, your brain feels SO clear and amazing! The hardest part is done. From there, I teach you simple daily and weekly habits that keep the system running smoothly so nothing falls through the cracks. Build a Weekly Plan That Works in Real Life Next, we start to plan! I teach you how to build your Weekly Map; an outline for your week, not a rigid schedule (because.kids.) Most humans plan their time in ways that are inefficient and frustrating. I show you how to build a week that works with real life, maximizes your time, and actually feels doable. Protect Connection With Your Kids This system intentionally protects and prioritizes connection time with your kids, because that’s usually one of the first things to disappear when life gets busy. As a Parenting Coach, I know that connection time with our kids is one of the best things we can do to encourage more positive behavior. Plan for Real Life With Flex Time Unique to my system is an emphasis on flex time; time intentionally built into your schedule for when things invariably go sideways. A kid melts down, an appointment runs long, someone stays home sick, and instead of spiraling, you stay calm because you planned for reality. Join Now A True Game Changer This system has been a game changer for my own life and for many that I work with and I can’t wait to walk you through it! The simple strategies I will teach you will completely change how you think about your child's behavior, how you interact with them, and transform your connection with them forever. Learning these strategies right now is everything for your family. You can go through the entire process in a single day, or work on it in free moments throughout the 30 days. It works for stay at home parents, working parents, homeschool parents, parents of 1 child or 10, single parents or couples. If you are a busy parent, this will work for you! Join Now And then one day, another mom casually asks you, “How do you manage it all?” Not because you’re doing more than everyone else — but because you seem calm, present, and on top of things. You smile, feel that quiet sense of pride in your chest, and realize it’s not about doing everything. It’s about having a system that finally works for your real life. Imagine having enough clarity and space in your life to finally say yes to the things you’ve been putting off: starting the business you’ve been dreaming about, getting back into a consistent workout routine, joining that Bunco group or book club, or simply having time for yourself without guilt. You’re no longer spending all your energy just keeping your head above water. You have margin. You know what matters, and you know where it fits. What You Get This isn’t about consuming more content, it’s about finally putting a system in place that you can trust and sustain. Immediate access to the full online course , walking you step by step through how to create a sustainable organization system that actually works for your real life Each video is short, simple, and walks you through it step by step. Custom workbooks and cheat sheets designed to make implementation simple, clear, and doable. A private Facebook community for support, accountability, and real-life questions throughout the month. Live coaching and Q&A calls where you can get help applying the system to your life, troubleshoot what’s not working, and stay supported as you build your system in real time. Bonus Workshop: Get exclusive access to a recording of my sold-out workshop “From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough”. This year doesn’t need more effort — it needs a better system. Start the new year with clarity, calm, and a plan that actually works for real life. Investment $297 Real Life Organization System: 30 Day Challenge Includes: On-demand access to my Real Life Organization System in an online member portal 5 Live Group Coaching and Q&A Calls with access to call replays Private Facebook Community for additional implementation support and guidance Exclusive workbooks and cheat sheets BONUS Workshop: “From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough” Join Now Live Call Dates Mon 1/28 at 9am PT | 10am MT | 11am ET Fri 1/30 at 10am PT | 11am MT | 12am ET Wed 2/4 at 11am PT | 12pm MT | 1pm ET Thurs 2/12 at 9am PT | 10am MT | 12pm ET Thurs 2/26 at 10am PT | 11am MT | 12pm ET If you can’t attend the calls live, no problem! You’ll get all the support you need in the Facebook group, and all calls will be recorded and added to the online portal. Some people come to all the live calls, and some people come to zero and still get the same amazing results. Participants will have access to the online course, call recordings, and Facebook group through Saturday, Feb. 28th "Our home feels calmer — and my child’s behavior is already improving." After the triggering session, everything changed. Our mornings are calmer, my strong-willed 4-year-old has fewer problem behaviors, and I feel more confident. I highly recommend this program to other parents! – Jane Questions? Click the button below to contact me directly with any questions you have! Contact Me

  • Behavior Bootcamp | Melissa Shulz | Confidently Mommin’

    Join the free 5-Day Behavior Bootcamp with Melissa Shulz, Board Certified Behavior Analyst and parenting coach at Confidently Mommin’. Discover proven steps to improve your child’s behavior and build a positive family dynamic. Starts Dec 2nd – register now! Behavior Bootcamp The 5-Day Fix Parents Swear By Learn the 5 simple steps that hundreds of families have used to drastically improve the behavior of their strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse children Join Now December 8-12 Raising a strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse child comes with big emotions, big personalities, and—let’s be honest—some really big challenges. Maybe it’s the daily battles over getting dressed… the screaming when things don’t go exactly right… the constant negotiating… the homework meltdowns… the refusal to brush teeth… the hitting or kicking when they’re overwhelmed… the “I’m not doing it!” moments… or the endless power struggles that leave you feeling drained before 9am. No matter what you’re facing, I can help You are NOT a bad parent. And your child is not a bad kid! As a Parenting Coach and BCBA who specializes in high-needs kids, I help parents understand the why behind the behavior and give them simple, science-backed steps that finally work for their unique child. And during Behavior Bootcamp, we’re going to do something powerful—and surprisingly doable. We’re going to pick ONE behavior. Just one. And over the next 5 days, I’ll walk you step-by-step through my proven GUIDE framework to change it—whether that’s: Getting out of the house without a battle Ending bedtime chaos Stopping hitting, yelling, or explosive reactions Reducing constant arguing or defiance Calming emotional outbursts Creating smoother mornings or homework time Or any other behavior that’s been running your home Once you know the process to change ONE behavior, you can use it to change ALL the challenging behaviors. Join Now Now imagine your life once that behavior is no longer a daily struggle… What will your mornings feel like when they actually flow? What will your evenings be like when bedtime isn’t a war zone? What will shift in your energy, your patience, your confidence, your home when that one sticking point finally eases? Behavior Bootcamp will show you exactly how to make that happen—calmly, clearly, and in a way that actually lasts. This is your week to create a real breakthrough. And it all starts with choosing the one behavior you’re ready to leave behind forever. I’m giving you the exact process that I use with my clients every day. You will learn 1 How to find the true root cause of your child’s misbehaviors 2 How to teach your child more appropriate behaviors 3 How to respond effectively when your child misbehaves 4 How to manage your own triggers 5 How to deeply connect with and enjoy your child The simple strategies I will teach you will completely change how you think about your child's behavior, how you interact with them, and transform your connection with them forever. Learning these strategies right now is everything for your family. If you think this challenge will be just like all the other parenting books you’ve read and things you’ve tried before, you’re wrong. My proven process is different. I teach you to create a plan that is custom for your unique child and will work for your family. Get expert support! I’ll answer your questions live on the calls and in an exclusive Facebook group. Join Now In this training you will learn: How to get unstuck, feel less overwhelmed, and exactly where to start to change your child’s behaviors How to deeply understand your child and why they behave they way they do How to teach your child coping skills and appropriate behaviors What will work to motivate your child to behavior appropriately The most effective response and discipline when your child misbehaves How to stay calm and confident no matter what your child is doing How to create a lasting connection and positive relationship with your child Join Now "This program helped me feel truly understood as a parent." You’re the first person who has ever explained something new to me. It feels amazing to finally feel understood as a parent of a very difficult child. – Amy Here's what you'll get inside Behavior Bootcamp: Join Now Group Coaching Join Melissa live on Zoom for 5 days to get coached on applying the 5-step GUIDE process to your child’s behavior. You’ll also hear other parents coached on a variety of behaviors you may want to work on in the future. Online Course Get instant access to my online course that breaks down each step of the 5-step process and teaches you exactly how to apply it to your child’s behavior. Private Community Connect with other parents who get it inside our exclusive Facebook group. Ask questions, share wins, and feel deeply supported—without judgment. Exclusive GUIDE Workbook Each lesson includes a printable workbook designed to help you integrate the GUIDE strategies into your daily routines with ease. BONUS Workshop Get access to a recording of my sold-out workshop "From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough". “One simple strategy prevented a meltdown — instantly.” This morning my 6-year-old was about to explode when I said no. I heard your voice say ‘Connect,’ and tried it. His grip softened, he started talking about his game, and the meltdown never happened. So, thank you!! – Jennifer Investment $197 Behavior Bootcamp Includes: On-demand access to GUIDE course in member portal 5 Live Group Coaching Calls with access to call replays Private Facebook Community for additional support and coaching Exclusive GUIDE Workbook BONUS Workshop: “From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough Join Now Live Call Dates Mon 12/8 at 1pm PT | 2pm MT | 4pm ET Tues 12/9 at 3pm PT | 4pm MT | 6pm ET Wed 12/10 at 9am PT | 10am MT | 12pm ET Thurs 12/11 at 9am PT | 10am MT | 12pm ET Fri 12/12 at 9:30am PT | 10:30am MT | 12:30pm ET Participants will have access to the online course, call recordings, and Facebook group through Sunday, December 14 . "Our home feels calmer — and my child’s behavior is already improving." After the triggering session, everything changed. Our mornings are calmer, my strong-willed 4-year-old has fewer problem behaviors, and I feel more confident. I highly recommend this program to other parents! – Jane Questions? Click the button below to contact me directly with any questions you have! Contact Me

  • Confidently Mommin’ Together

    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Your Next Steps Thank you so much for joining the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge — I'm so glad you're here. 💛 Your workbook and welcome email are on their way to your inbox right now. Please take a moment to check your inbox (and your spam/promotions tab just in case) and download your workbook so you're ready to go. Your first daily text will arrive tomorrow morning — keep an eye on your phone! And remember, you can text me back anytime. I read every message. To be sure you don’t miss anything important, please add Melissa@MelissaSchulz.com to your contacts or safe sender list. I can't wait to walk these 30 days with you. 💛

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    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Your Next Steps You're officially on the waitlist for Confidently Mommin' Together — and I'm so glad you're here. 💛 When doors open for the next cohort, you'll be the first to know — before I announce it anywhere else. You'll get an email from me with all the details: dates, kickoff week, investment, and the link to reserve your spot before it goes public. To be sure you don’t miss anything important, please add Melissa@MelissaSchulz.com to your contacts or safe sender list.

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