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  • Group Coaching | Melissa Schulz | Confidently Mommin’

    Join Melissa Schulz's Group Coaching program to connect with like-minded individuals, gain practical tools for growth, and work towards your goals in a supportive environment. Unlock your potential with expert guidance and collaborative insights. Yell Less, Smile More Support for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse kids Join Now Yell Less, Smile More Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on December 19. Hi, I’m Melissa Schulz I’m a Parenting Coach I know how challenging it can be to have a child who is strong-willed, deeply feeling, or has a diagnosis like ADHD or autism. You love your kid so much, but are overwhelmed, stressed out, and frustrated with their behaviors. They won’t listen, the outbursts are explosive, and it’s a constant battle to complete daily routines. You want to enjoy your time with your kids. But how do you get them to listen? What do you do when they are misbehaving? How do you stop the tantrums and outbursts? Will anything actually work for your child? You are in the right place! I made Confidently Mommin’ Together for YOU. Stay calm no matter what Release the anger, frustration, stress, and overwhelm you feel when your child is misbehaving so you can effortlessly respond. Stop behavior problems No more yelling, guessing, or trying random strategies from the internet. Start confidently and effectively managing any and all challenging behaviors. Understand why Stop pulling your hair out wondering why your child is behaving that way. Understand exactly what’s going on and what they are trying to tell you. This is where you get a process that will actually WORK to… "This program is exactly what I needed to be able to support my daughter." This program is exactly what I needed to be able to support my daughter. I've tried so many different parenting suggestions and advice, and none of it made any sense until this program. – Cathy C. Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on December 19. "Melissa was a game changer in my mom game" Melissa was a game changer in my mom game for helping me build my relationship and understanding of my spicy two year old. Full blown tantrums in the grocery store, backbreaking dance moves to get her in her car seat, full on eye contact while slamming her head into the ground, and pet torture while smiling…I cried nightly and yelled daily. Melissa was my breath of fresh air. She brought me into a two year old’s understanding of what life is and gave me perspective. There was no “quick fix” but long term intensive, loving attention and structured language to support my daughter. Parents if you are struggling with parenting, Melissa is the gal for the gig! - Kelly L. "Melissa is one of the most competent and passionate coaches I’ve ever met" Melissa is truly one of the most competent and passionate coaches and persons I’ve ever met. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience that can help us all with the most important challenge we will ever have, which is raising children. If you’re mulling whether to give her parenting coaching a try, reach out and talk to her and I can confidently say you’ll love her! and more. - Sam O "Aside from her credentials, when you meet with (Melissa), you instantly enter a judgment-free zone" Melissa truly wants to help parents grow and enjoy parenting! She has all the expertise and schooling and knows what she’s talking about! Aside from her credentials, when you meet with her, you instantly enter a judgment-free zone, which is the best feeling and place to be when working on yourself. - Katherine G. "Her knowledge, compassion, and helpful tips came when we needed it most with our deeply feeling child" Melissa truly wants to help parents grow and enjoy parenting! She has all the expertise and schooling and knows what she’s talking about! Aside from her credentials, when you meet with her, you instantly enter a judgment-free zone, which is the best feeling and place to be when working on yourself. - Priscilla C. Confidently Mommin’ Together is the place for moms of strong-willed, deeply feeling, and neurodiverse kids to get support, expert advice, and become the mom they want to be. Confidently Mommin’ Together is a three month group coaching program that has the resources and support every mom of a high needs child is desperate for. Take the guesswork out of parenting your child’s challenging behaviors. No more googling or trying to piece together all the random tips you find on Instagram. Trying to figure out your child’s behaviors on your own can take years, but imagine knowing exactly what to do (and what not to do) to respond to your unique child’s behaviors in a way that works and see their progress every day. Inside this exclusive group coaching program, you will get a step-by-step process and personalized expert support so you can: Stay calm no matter what your child is doing Know exactly how to handle your child’s behaviors Create a calm home environment for your family Stop walking on eggshells and living for bedtime Connect and deeply understand your child Enjoy your family time Join Now What Do We Cover? Confidently Mommin’ Together is the only program of its kind for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. You will learn the best ways to respond to any and all challenging behaviors in a way that actually WORKS for your child’s personality. Schedule a consult to see if it’s right for you “Melissa Schulz is the real deal!” Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B. Here’s what you’ll get inside Confidently Mommin’ Together: Join Now Group Coaching Join Melissa live on Zoom each week to get coached through your toughest parenting moments, gain insight from other’s experiences, and walk away with a personalized plan you can use right away. Online Course Get instant access to a comprehensive course that breaks down exactly what to do (and what not to do) when parenting strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse kids- step by step. Private Community Connect with other moms who get it inside our members-only Facebook group and live calls. Ask questions, share wins, and feel deeply supported- without judgement. Personal Support Sometimes you need more than group support. You’ll get three private sessions with Melissa to dive deep into your family’s unique challenges and get custom strategies that work. Nervous System Regulation Reset your nervous system with the Safe and Sound Protocol, a powerful listening therapy, so you can finally stop living in survival mode and start parenting from a place of peace. Monthly Self-Care Challenges Stay consistent with fun, bite-sized challenges designed just for moms like you. Prioritize your own well-being, boost your mood, and fill your own cup- without needing hours of free time. Here’s what you’ll learn: Manage Any Behavior Problem Get to the root of why your child is misbehaving Follow the proven 5-step process to effectively respond to any and all challenging behaviors Confidently respond to behavior problems in a way that works Stay Calm No Matter What Identify what triggers your feelings of anger, overwhelm, frustration, overstimulation, worry, etc. Learn how to handle your emotions in a healthy way Use a proven process to stop feeling triggered and genuinely calm no matter what your child is doing Deeply Understand and Connect with Your Child Know exactly why your child is misbehaving and how to help Understand your child’s perspective and what they are trying to learn and communicate Respond in a way that creates a deep connection between you and your child that will last their entire life Drop The Mom Guilt Stop the vicious cycle of trying your best to stay calm, yelling, and then beating yourself up once and for all Recognize the tape of mean things your brain is telling you on repeat all day long and learn to turn it off Learn to treat yourself like someone you love Create Household Systems that do the work for you Create a Discipline Plan so you know exactly how to respond when your kids misbehave in a way that will actually work for their personalities Avoid power struggles over screen time, meals, homework, getting ready for school etc. by creating effective systems and routines Support your child in learning independence instead of nagging them to complete daily tasks Have More Time and Energy Enjoy self-care challenges that will help you prioritize your own physical and mental health Experience so much more emotional energy when you drop the mom guilt Add hours to your week to do the things you want to do when you stop having to manage lengthy meltdowns and arguments Join Now "I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately." I've always dreaded my alone time with him. He has been a difficult child from day one for me, until the last few months he’s really turning a corner! My son was having 5-6 tantrums a day that would last for up to an hour of full blown screaming, crying, foaming at the mouth, hitting, kicking, biting, and throwing things. I had no idea what the right reaction was. I tried staying calm, I tried yelling back, time-out, ignoring him, etc. I was losing my mind. I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately. All to say I highly recommend Melissa! Thank you so much for the months of parent coaching. It has SO paid off! – Lyndee S. Learn how to think, feel, and show up every day as the mom you want to be You are going to know exactly what parenting strategy will work best for each unique child and personality. You won’t need to consult Dr. Google ever again. This program is different from all the things you’ve tried before. Most of my clients have read all the parenting books, watched all the reels, stayed up late googling different strategies, and have tried all the things but nothing ever works. Not only will you get expert advice on exactly which strategy to use for which kid for which behavior at which age and stage and learn how to do that yourself effortlessly, but we are also going to change your perspective on yourself as a mom and on your child’s behavior. Parenting a child that is strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse can be hard. It feels like scaling a mountain. At the same time, our brain gives us all sorts of negative thoughts about ourselves and our parenting. “I'm not good enough.” “I am a terrible mom.” “I can’t believe I yelled AGAIN.” These lies play on repeat in our head and suck away all of our energy and joy. Each negative thought is a brick in a backpack you are carrying around. While trying to scale a mountain. I’ll teach you a proven process to stop listening to those negative thoughts and drop the guilt. You will learn how to finally put that heavy backpack down and just focus on scaling the mountain of parenting. And since you now know exactly how to respond to the challenging behaviors, the mountain is a bit less steep than before. Once you know how to do this, you will have more energy. You’ll be able to really enjoy your children and this phase of parenting instead of just trying to survive. And you will know how to do it for the rest of your life! "Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her." Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her. She provides just enough support and challenges you to be a better version of yourself. She is kind, funny and overall, a beautiful human being. Blessed to know her and have her in my life. – Bindiya M Everything is waiting for you inside. Investment $2,000 Choose from a single payment of $2,000 (Save 10%!) or three monthly payments of $733. Your Three Month Program Includes: On-demand access to the entire course + bonuses 9 Live Group Coaching Calls via Zoom 3 Individual Coaching Calls with Melissa Access to the Safe and Sound Protocol Listening Therapy and 3 Group Sessions Private Facebook community with on-going support Monthly self-care challenges Join Now Have questions? Book a free consultation call! Book a complimentary consultation and let’s chat about exactly how Confidently Mommin’ Together will help support you and your family. Schedule a Free Consultation Call Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on December 19. "Just saying 'yes' to this group shifted my mental health and my relationship with my daughter. After watching just ONE video, the very next day was a better day for my family. The morning was easier, so I wasn’t crying on the way to school drop-off. When I kissed my 6 y/o goodbye, I actually meant it in a loving way, not an "OMG, leave me alone.. I can't handle you" kind of way. I could show up to work refreshed and clear instead of depleted and discouraged, and then come back home to my kids feeling more capable, patient, and laidback. Home AND work-life have gotten easier! Thank you, Melissa! - Sarah T Join Now + Reserve My Spot Book a Free Consultation Call How do I know this will work for me? If you have a strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse child, this program was created specifically to help you! This program is great for managing any and all challenging behaviors, including meltdowns, tantrums, rudeness, sleep challenges, picky eating, morning or homework routine struggles, hitting, throwing, kicking, not listening, and more. If you’d like to chat directly with Melissa about what’s going on with your children and if her program would work, book a free consultation here. When do the live calls take place? Kick-Off Week Mon Jan 5 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Tues Jan 6 at 9:00 am PT / 10:00 am MT / 11:00 am CT / 12:00 pm ET Wed Jan 7 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Jan 7 at 4:30 pm PT / 5:30 pm MT / 6:30 pm CT / 7:30 pm ET Thurs Jan 8 at 9:00 am PT / 10:00 am MT / 11:00 am CT / 12:00 pm ET Weekly Group Coaching Calls Wed Jan 14 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Jan 21 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Jan 28 at 4:30 pm PT / 5:30 pm MT / 6:30 pm CT / 7:30 pm ET Wed Feb 4 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Feb 11 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Feb 25 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Feb 25 at 4:30 pm PT / 5:30 pm MT / 6:30 pm CT / 7:30 pm ET Wed Mar 4 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Mar 11 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Mar 18 at 10:00 am PT / 11:00 am MT / 12:00 pm CT / 1:00 pm ET Wed Mar 25 at 4:30 pm PT / 5:30 pm MT / 6:30 pm CT / 7:30 pm ET What if I can’t attend the live calls? Many clients listen to the call REPLAYS. The replays will be posted in the online portal within 24 hours. I’m scared to make the investment… I get it! Many of my clients have already invested in books, webinars or trainings that haven’t worked, and they are hesitant to invest in something else. This program is different because it is created specifically for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. I have worked with families just like yours for the past 22 years and used that experience and knowledge to create this program! I'm also a mom of two neurodiverse kids so I understand first hand the challenges and what actually works. My clients come in and get the results they want and more! It’s okay to be nervous or scared. It’s an investment after all! But decide that you’re going to come in and get exactly what you need so you can become the mom you’ve always wanted to be and give your kids the unique support they need. I’m scared I won’t follow through… This is normal. It can be scary to make an investment and not know if you’ll quit or not. But I can tell you that as your coach, my goal is to get you to the finish line. Expect regular coaching calls, consistent posts in our Facebook group, monthly challenges, and more. Having a coach and a community of other moms like you offers you that extra accountability. Can my partner join too? Confidently Mommin' Together is a program for moms only. The live group coaching and exclusive Facebook group are a safe environment for just moms to be vulnerable and receive support. However, clients are welcome to share all my content videos with their partner or other primary caregivers for your child to help everyone be on the same page. I also love supporting dads individually through my 1:1 coaching . How long will it take to complete the course? You can binge the course over a weekend or take your time and watch one video per week. The videos are short and highly actionable. You don’t have to watch every video to see progress. You will notice changes in your own thinking and behavior and in your child’s behavior just after watching the first video. Join Now + Reserve My Spot Book a Free Consultation Call "Working with her has been so beneficial and I would recommend it to anyone interested!" I have been working with Melissa for over a year and with her help, I have made so many improvements in several areas of my life. She has helped me become aware of my own thinking patterns and how to change them. She has helped me with my parenting and with my classroom management. Working with her has been so beneficial and I would recommend it to anyone interested. – Michelle C

  • Confidently Mommin’ Together

    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids You’re In! Thank you so much for joining — I’m thrilled to walk this journey with you. Your Welcome + Orientation Email is on the way now. Please check your inbox (and spam/promotions tab just in case). To be sure you don’t miss anything important, add Melissa@MelissaSchulz.com to your contacts or safe sender list. I can’t wait to get started! 💛

  • Confidently Mommin’ Together

    Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids The December BOGO Coaching Bonus A special, never-before-offered opportunity! Purchase a 1:1 coaching package in December ($6000 investment), and get a FREE membership to my group coaching program, Confidently Mommin’ Together, for the January cohort ($2000 value)! Here's What's Included: — Weekly Group Coaching Calls (come live or catch the replay!) — Exclusive Facebook Group for a supportive and encouraging community of people who get it — Access to my online course for quick actionable how-to videos Here’s why this is the best thing ever… DOUBLE your transformation for free! Joining the group will add steroids to your progress without costing more or adding more work. You’ll find your people! Your lifelong BFFs are waiting inside this group for you. So many of my 1:1 clients feel like they are the only ones facing their challenges, while I actually coach people on the same things over and over! Experience your “ME TOO!” moment when someone else describes the exact same thing you’ve been struggling with. You’re not alone anymore! This is a power combo: you’ll get the individualized support you need through our 1:1 sessions, PLUS you can learn the foundational skills in my online course and hear other people get coached and ask questions you didn’t even realize you had. If you are new to me, there is no better time to get started! You’ll get double the support you need right off the bat, for no additional cost. If you are a current 1:1 client, you already know the value of working together! Everyone is different, but I’ve found that for most people, the second 1:1 package is where even more magic happens as we continue to build on the foundation and progress from the first session. Imagine how you’ll feel and show up in your parenting during the holiday stress when you know you’ve invested in ongoing coaching for yourself and get a bonus of group coaching in the New Year! Your body and nervous system can finally exhale knowing your support is continuing. Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! To join, just email or text me “BOGO ” and we’ll get you signed up! Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B.

  • Behavior Bootcamp | Melissa Shulz | Confidently Mommin’

    Join the free 5-Day Behavior Bootcamp with Melissa Shulz, Board Certified Behavior Analyst and parenting coach at Confidently Mommin’. Discover proven steps to improve your child’s behavior and build a positive family dynamic. Starts Dec 2nd – register now! Behavior Bootcamp The 5-Day Fix Parents Swear By Learn the 5 simple steps that hundreds of families have used to drastically improve the behavior of their strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse children Join Now December 8-12 Raising a strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse child comes with big emotions, big personalities, and—let’s be honest—some really big challenges. Maybe it’s the daily battles over getting dressed… the screaming when things don’t go exactly right… the constant negotiating… the homework meltdowns… the refusal to brush teeth… the hitting or kicking when they’re overwhelmed… the “I’m not doing it!” moments… or the endless power struggles that leave you feeling drained before 9am. No matter what you’re facing, I can help You are NOT a bad parent. And your child is not a bad kid! As a Parenting Coach and BCBA who specializes in high-needs kids, I help parents understand the why behind the behavior and give them simple, science-backed steps that finally work for their unique child. And during Behavior Bootcamp, we’re going to do something powerful—and surprisingly doable. We’re going to pick ONE behavior. Just one. And over the next 5 days, I’ll walk you step-by-step through my proven GUIDE framework to change it—whether that’s: Getting out of the house without a battle Ending bedtime chaos Stopping hitting, yelling, or explosive reactions Reducing constant arguing or defiance Calming emotional outbursts Creating smoother mornings or homework time Or any other behavior that’s been running your home Once you know the process to change ONE behavior, you can use it to change ALL the challenging behaviors. Join Now What will your mornings feel like when they actually flow? What will your evenings be like when bedtime isn’t a war zone? What will shift in your energy, your patience, your confidence, your home when that one sticking point finally eases? Behavior Bootcamp will show you exactly how to make that happen—calmly, clearly, and in a way that actually lasts. This is your week to create a real breakthrough. And it all starts with choosing the one behavior you’re ready to leave behind forever. Now imagine your life once that behavior is no longer a daily struggle… I’m giving you the exact process that I use with my clients every day. You will learn 1 How to find the true root cause of your child’s misbehaviors 2 How to teach your child more appropriate behaviors 3 How to respond effectively when your child misbehaves 4 How to manage your own triggers 5 How to deeply connect with and enjoy your child The simple strategies I will teach you will completely change how you think about your child's behavior, how you interact with them, and transform your connection with them forever. Learning these strategies right now is everything for your family. If you think this challenge will be just like all the other parenting books you’ve read and things you’ve tried before, you’re wrong. My proven process is different. I teach you to create a plan that is custom for your unique child and will work for your family. Get expert support! I’ll answer your questions live on the calls and in an exclusive Facebook group. Join Now In this training you will learn: How to get unstuck, feel less overwhelmed, and exactly where to start to change your child’s behaviors How to deeply understand your child and why they behave they way they do How to teach your child coping skills and appropriate behaviors What will work to motivate your child to behavior appropriately The most effective response and discipline when your child misbehaves How to stay calm and confident no matter what your child is doing How to create a lasting connection and positive relationship with your child Join Now "This program helped me feel truly understood as a parent." You’re the first person who has ever explained something new to me. It feels amazing to finally feel understood as a parent of a very difficult child. – Amy Here's what you'll get inside Behavior Bootcamp: Join Now Group Coaching Join Melissa live on Zoom for 5 days to get coached on applying the 5-step GUIDE process to your child’s behavior. You’ll also hear other parents coached on a variety of behaviors you may want to work on in the future. Online Course Get instant access to my online course that breaks down each step of the 5-step process and teaches you exactly how to apply it to your child’s behavior. Private Community Connect with other parents who get it inside our exclusive Facebook group. Ask questions, share wins, and feel deeply supported—without judgment. Exclusive GUIDE Workbook Each lesson includes a printable workbook designed to help you integrate the GUIDE strategies into your daily routines with ease. BONUS Workshop Get access to a recording of my sold-out workshop "From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough". “One simple strategy prevented a meltdown — instantly.” This morning my 6-year-old was about to explode when I said no. I heard your voice say ‘Connect,’ and tried it. His grip softened, he started talking about his game, and the meltdown never happened. So, thank you!! – Jennifer Investment $197 Behavior Bootcamp Includes: On-demand access to GUIDE course in member portal 5 Live Group Coaching Calls with access to call replays Private Facebook Community for additional support and coaching Exclusive GUIDE Workbook BONUS Workshop: “From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough Join Now Live Call Dates Mon 12/8 at 1pm PT | 2pm MT | 4pm ET Tues 12/9 at 3pm PT | 4pm MT | 6pm ET Wed 12/10 at 9am PT | 10am MT | 12pm ET Thurs 12/11 at 9am PT | 10am MT | 12pm ET Fri 12/12 at 9:30am PT | 10:30am MT | 12:30pm ET Participants will have access to the online course, call recordings, and Facebook group through Sunday, December 14 . "Our home feels calmer — and my child’s behavior is already improving." After the triggering session, everything changed. Our mornings are calmer, my strong-willed 4-year-old has fewer problem behaviors, and I feel more confident. I highly recommend this program to other parents! – Jane Questions? Click the button below to contact me directly with any questions you have! Contact Me

  • How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies

    Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Download my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Want your kids to listen without yelling? Get my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen Get the Guide Does this sound like you? You love your kids — but parenting feels like a constant battle. You’re yelling more than you want to. You’re second-guessing your every move. You feel like you’ve tried everything… and nothing’s worked. You’re Googling parenting tips late at night but still feel stuck. If that’s you — this guide is your first step to less stress and more connection! Get the Guide Here’s what you’ll get inside the free guide + webinar: Simple strategies that work for kids 18 months to 18 years Tools to increase cooperation (without yelling or bribing!) The replay of my most popular workshop: How to Get Kids to Listen A gentle, confidence-building approach to parenting Get the Guide Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Become the parent you want to be. Free 60-Minute Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

  • How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies

    Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Download my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen. Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Here’s what you’ll get inside the free guide + webinar: Simple strategies that work for kids 18 months to 18 years Tools to increase cooperation (without yelling or bribing!) The replay of my most popular workshop: How to Get Kids to Listen A gentle, confidence-building approach to parenting Get the Guide Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Want your kids to listen without yelling? Get my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen Get the Guide Become the parent you want to be. Free 60-Minute Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Does this sound like you? You love your kids — but parenting feels like a constant battle. You’re yelling more than you want to. You’re second-guessing your every move. You feel like you’ve tried everything… and nothing’s worked. You’re Googling parenting tips late at night but still feel stuck. If that’s you — this guide is your first step to less stress and more connection! Get the Guide

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  • Contact Melissa Shulz, BCBA | Confidently Mommin’ Parenting Coach

    Get in touch with Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and the parenting coach behind Confidently Mommin’. Contact her today for expert parenting coaching, ask questions, or schedule a consultation to transform your parenting journey. Confidently Mommin' Melissa Schulz (510) 629-1246 hello@melissaschulz.com Contact Me First name* Last name* Email* Phone Message* Submit Become the parent you want to be. Free 60-Minute Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

  • Confidently Mommin’ | Parenting Coach

    Discover personalized parenting coaching and support with Confidently Mommin’. Empower your journey as a parent with expert guidance, resources, and community connection. Start transforming your family dynamic today! Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Resources Read More Check back soon Once posts are published, you’ll see them here. Welcome to Confidently Mommin'! Helping parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodivergent kids calmly, confidently and effectively respond to their child’s challenging behaviors and enjoy their family time. Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox LESS... Yelling Tantrums Hitting Meltdowns Defiance Stress Walking on eggshells Marital tension MORE... Laughter Smooth mornings Happy family dinners Bedtime cuddles Energy Cherished memories Connection Become the parent you want to be. Free 60-Minute Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Recognition & Honors Recognized as an Honored Listee in Marquis Who’s Who. Celebrating leadership, authenticity & impact. Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide

  • About Me | Confidently Mommin’

    Meet the founder of Confidently Mommin’ and discover her passion for empowering parents. Learn about her journey, qualifications, and commitment to providing expert parenting coaching and support tailored to your unique needs. About Me I am a mom of 3 with a Master’s Degree in Counseling. I’m a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with over 20 years of experience working with children with severe behavior disorders and providing support and training to their caregivers. I specialize in helping parents learn how to calmly and confidently manage any and all challenging behaviors by providing research based, practical tools and parenting best practices. I have successfully worked with hundreds of children and families across the country. I use a unique blend of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), Polyvagal theory, neuroscience, mindfulness and mindset work in my coaching practice. I have expertise in supporting children with high needs, including strong willed children, deeply feeling children, and/or children with a diagnosis or neurodiversity. More About My Professional Background More About My Personal Life Featured On Living Your Legacy with Michelle Slaney-Trovato Podcast Episode 90 Living your Legacy Podcast Listen to it on Spotify Listen to it on Apple Podcast Living Your Legacy with Michelle Slaney-Trovato Podcast Episode 90 Living your Legacy Podcast Listen to it on Spotify Listen to it on Apple Podcast Been There Got Out IG Live Interview Been There Got Out Listen to interview Stress Free IEP Podcast with Frances Shefter Watch on YouTube Listen to interview Listen to interview More About My Professional Background I started my career 22 years ago working in group homes for children who had been abused, in shelters for teenage prostitutes, and in teen drug rehabilitation homes. I then worked at a school for children with emotional disturbances, at first in the classroom and later as the Director of Behavioral Services overseeing their program for students with moderate to severe autism. I later served as the Director of Behavioral Services at a large organization serving children and adults with autism in both school and group home settings. In 2009, I founded my first company, which provided in-home behavioral health (ABA) therapy for children with autism. The company grew to have 75 employees and consistently won awards for being one of the best companies to work for in the nation, and providing the highest quality ABA services in the area. I founded Confidently Mommin’ in 2020 to serve families as a Parenting Coach. Using my extensive education and background, I use proven processes to help parents know how to calmly and confidently manage any and all of their child’s challenging behaviors and enjoy their family time. I have been a guest lecturer at Azusa Pacific University and San Jose State University and have supervised BCBA candidates internationally. I am a popular speaker on parenting and behavioral strategies. More About My Personal Life My husband Brian and I have been married for 17 years. We have 3 hilarious, wonderful, and exhausting children and a sweet pit bull named Goose. I am very involved in my church and serve as a leader in the mom’s ministry. I volunteer as a Girl Scout Troop Leader for my daughter’s troop. I am a runner and love to be outdoors, read, and spend time with friends and family. I am obsessed with personal development and growth. I never miss an Office Ladies Podcast or a Marvel movie, and would live at Disneyland if I could. Become the parent you want to be. Free 60-Minute Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

  • FAQ | Confidently Mommin’ Parenting Coaching with Melissa Shulz, BCBA

    Find answers to frequently asked questions about Confidently Mommin’ and Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Learn more about parenting coaching services, approaches, and how to get started on your journey. FAQ Do you have an office near me? I’m as close as your computer! I work with all my clients via Zoom and my certification is international so I get to serve clients anywhere and everywhere. When do you observe my child? I actually don’t! I have worked in families homes for over twenty years and have found it is most effective to talk to the parent and hear their perspective on their child’s behavior. My clients are welcome to send me videos of their child but that’s usually not necessary. Should my partner be on the consultation call too? You are both welcome to be on the call! However, most people prefer to talk to me individually. My coaching program focuses on one parent. Each parent has different triggers, emotional reactions, and default responses, so I work with each parent individually to address your specific patterns with your child. All coaching sessions can be recorded and a transcript and summary is provided that can be shared with the partner and the partner is welcome to join occasional sessions to ensure everyone is on the same page. I offer a discount for couples that each purchase their own individual coaching package. Do you acccept insurance? No, my services are private pay only. My package was thoughtfully and intentionally created to bridge the gap between what medical insurance provides and what families actually need to change their child(ren)’s behavior. Is your coaching program the same as therapy No! I am not a licensed therapist and do not do therapy. I LOVE therapy and recommend it for all humans, and what I do is very different. While we will discuss some thoughts and emotions that are keeping you stuck, we will do this in a very intentional and step by step way with an emphasis on behavior change. I do not provide medical treatment for a mental health condition, instead I use a unique blend of mindset work and research-based behavioral strategies to change your behavior so that you can change your child’s behavior. Some of my clients are also in therapy to resolve childhood issues, trauma, treat a mental health condition, etc., and it works well to do both. How much does your coaching program cost? I share that information with you on the consultation call once I understand your unique family situation and what your needs are. Become the parent you want to be. Free 60-Minute Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

  • Speaking Engagements | Melissa Shulz, Confidently Mommin’

    Read real testimonials from parents who have worked with Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and parenting coach at Confidently Mommin’. Discover how her expert guidance has transformed families and empowered parents." Keynote Topics How to Get Kids to Listen How to Help Kids with BIG Feelings How to Improve Your Child's Behavior Request Speaking Info Book 101 Review Podcast with Daniel Lucas Watch on YouTube Livermore Learning Tree Preschool Moms Connect at Vintage Grace Resonate Church Bright Beginnings Folsom Co-Op and Preschool The Mom Co at Twin Cities Church Loomis Life Care Roseville Parent Education Preschool The Mom Co at Life Community Church MomsNext at Foundation Christian Church Past Speaking Engagements Thank you thank you thank you! Wow! What an incredible experience to have had Melissa come speak to our mommas! She is not only sweet and endearing, easy to talk and listen to, and full of experience, knowledge and educated expertise; but she makes you feel seen, known, heard and as if you had already known her for years! Her presentation was so helpful to all who were there and helped give us all a few more “tools” in our parenting tool belts. I highly recommend you seek her out and have her be a part of your parenting experience! I cannot say enough about how great she was! Carrie W. Would you like me to speak at your upcoming event? Request Speaking Info Speaking Engagements I am a popular speaker across Northern California on all things parenting. I take a practical, non-judgemental, and humorous approach to training and equipping parents with the knowledge and skills they need to effectively manage their child’s behavior.

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