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UPCOMING WORKSHOP Why Kids Stop Coming to Us (And How to Keep Yours Close) Walk out with a Connection Game Plan built for your kid's hardest moment of the day. For moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids, toddler through teen. Get My Ticket for $27 Thursday, August 27th at 11 am PT/ 2 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included Sound Familiar, Mama? 🙋🏻♀️ 🙋🏻♀️ 🙋🏻♀️ Asking about her day and getting one word back, every single time? Watching your kid save all the silly stories and big feelings for daddy or grandma, while you get the leftovers? Ending every evening in the same battle over teeth or homework, with nothing left for the snuggle by the time it's over? 🙋🏻♀️ Inside Our Hour Together During this workshop you’ll: Learn why kids drift from us minutes at a time (and why it's never about how much you love them) Decode what your kid's biggest, loudest behavior is actually asking for Learn the Connection Flip: the 30-second move that turns a daily battle into a moment that pulls your kid closer Watch a live coaching moment: drop your hardest daily flashpoint in the chat and see how I rebuild it in real time Build your own Connection Game Plan for your actual kid, with my coaching live in the room Get the five-word repair script for the days you blow it anyway (we all do) You’ll leave with: One personalized Connection Game Plan, ready to use that night The printable Connection Flip Worksheet: the 3-step framework, real-life examples, and your fill-in plan for the moments that go sideways Lifetime replay access Get My Ticket for $27 Why Kids Stop Coming to Us (And How to Keep Yours Close) Give me $27 and 60 minutes and you'll walk into tonight's hardest moment already knowing your first move. Get My Ticket for $27 Thursday, August 27th at 11 am PT/ 2 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included The Details Thursday, August 27th 📅 11:00 am PT 2:00 pm ET ⏰ Lifetime Replay Included Get My Ticket for $27 My Story Why I Teach This I'm a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with 22 years of experience working with kids with ADHD, autism, sensory processing differences, and big behaviors. I've sat with hundreds of families and watched the same pattern play out: a mom who's read everything and tried everything, convinced she's failing, when the actual problem is that the advice was written for a different kid. I'm also a mom of three, two of them neurodiverse. I know exactly what it looks like when the whole morning falls apart before 8am. And after all those years and all those families, here's what I know for sure: I have never met a bad kid. I've met a lot of missed messages. That's what this workshop is. A live hour where you learn to catch the message inside the battle, then build a Connection Game Plan for your actual kid while I coach plans live in the room. I'm Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA, and #1 bestselling author of The Power of Connection. I run Confidently Mommin', where I help moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids stop surviving their days and start enjoying their kids again. This workshop is the fastest way I know to get the closeness back. FAQ My kid is 3. Or 9. Is this for us? The workshop is built for kids ages 2 to 10. The Verbal Pivot works across that whole range, and the live coaching pulls scenarios from different ages so you see how it applies to yours. Is this only for kids with ADHD or autism? It's for any mom whose kid doesn't respond to standard parenting advice. Strong-willed, highly sensitive, emotionally intense kids with ADHD, kids with autism. If the usual approaches haven't worked, you're in the right place. Live is better. You can drop your standoff in the chat for the coaching moment and get real-time feedback while you build your response. But the replay goes out the morning after (July 29) and you have lifetime access. I've been to parenting workshops before and nothing stuck. Why is this different? Because you build something during the hour. By the end you'll have a response written for your kid and your situation, ready to use that night, instead of a list of tips to remember. Why $27? Because paid means you'll show up. I've run years' worth of free webinars and watched people register and then disappear. Twenty-seven dollars is the cost of a few coffees, but more importantly, it’s a signal to yourself that you're serious about changing this pattern. Will this be a pitch for coaching? The workshop stands on its own. You'll leave with your response, whether or not you ever spend another dollar with me. At the end, I'll share two ways to keep working with me (Behavior Rx at $97 and the 30-Day Power Struggle Fix at $350) and drop the links in the chat. Zero pressure either way. What does BCBA mean? Board Certified Behavior Analyst. It's a graduate-level credential in applied behavior analysis, the science of how behavior works and how to change it. I use that science to help real families in real kitchens on real Tuesday mornings. Why Kids Stop Coming to Us (And How to Keep Yours Close) The minutes are still there. Let's go catch them. Get My Ticket for $27 Thursday, August 27th at 11 am PT/ 2 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included

UPCOMING WORKSHOP Why Everything Becomes a Battle (And How to Make It Stop) It’s 7:58 and the shoes still aren’t on. In 60 minutes together, we’ll create a custom response for your specific child, so you know exactly what to do to prevent the next battle from starting. Get My Ticket for $27 Tuesday, July 28th at 9 am PT/ 12 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included Current Problems 🙋🏻♀️ 🙋🏻♀️ 🙋🏻♀️ Fighting the same battles every single day (shoes, screens, homework, leaving the park) no matter how calm you stay? Ever cave in aisle 7 because you can’t handle one more grocery store meltdown, then carry the guilt all the way to bedtime? Tried the reels, the sticker charts, and the gentle parenting scripts, only to watch your kid look you dead in the eye and laugh? 🙋🏻♀️ Workshop Benefits During this workshop you’ll: Learn why your kid escalates when you stay calm and keeps pushing after you've said no (the real answer, from behavior science, in mom language) See why giving in sometimes is completely understandable and also accidentally teaching the battle to keep going Get the conference table reframe that puts you and your kid on the same team, working against the problem together Watch a live coaching moment: drop your toughest standoff in the chat and see how I work through it with my GUIDE framework Learn the Verbal Pivot, the 3-step response I teach for strong-willed and highly sensitive kids Find out why behavior gets harder right before it gets easier (the extinction burst), so you don't give up the night before it starts working Build your own Verbal Pivot response for your actual kid, with feedback from me in real time You’ll leave with: One personalized Verbal Pivot response, ready to use that night The printable Verbal Pivot Worksheet: the 3-step framework, 8 real-life choice examples, and a plan for when your kid refuses both choices Lifetime replay access Get My Ticket for $27 Why Everything Becomes a Battle (And How to Make It Stop) Give me $27 and 60 minutes and you’ll walk away with one response built for your specific kid, ready for the very next battle. Get My Ticket for $27 Tuesday, July 28th at 9 am PT/ 12 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included Workshop Logistics Tuesday, July 28th 📅 9:00 am PT 12:00 pm ET ⏰ Lifetime Replay Included Get My Ticket for $27 My Story Why I Teach This I'm a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with 22 years of experience working with kids with ADHD, autism, sensory processing differences, and big behaviors. I've sat with hundreds of families and watched the same pattern play out: a mom who's read everything and tried everything, convinced she's failing, when the actual problem is that the advice was written for a different kid. I also have my own kids. I know exactly what it looks like when the whole morning falls apart before 8am. That's what this workshop is. A live hour where you watch how I think through a real standoff, then build a response for your actual kid with my feedback. I'm Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA. I run Confidently Mommin', where I help moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids stop surviving their days and start enjoying their kids again. This workshop is the fastest way I know to hand you the first piece. FAQ My kid is 3. Or 9. Is this for us? The workshop is built for kids ages 2 to 10. The Verbal Pivot works across that whole range, and the live coaching pulls scenarios from different ages so you see how it applies to yours. Is this only for kids with ADHD or autism? It's for any mom whose kid doesn't respond to standard parenting advice. Strong-willed, highly sensitive, emotionally intense kids with ADHD, kids with autism. If the usual approaches haven't worked, you're in the right place. Live is better. You can drop your standoff in the chat for the coaching moment and get real-time feedback while you build your response. But the replay goes out the morning after (July 29) and you have lifetime access. I've been to parenting workshops before and nothing stuck. Why is this different? Because you build something during the hour. By the end you'll have a response written for your kid and your situation, ready to use that night, instead of a list of tips to remember. Why $27? Because paid means you'll show up. I've run years' worth of free webinars and watched people register and then disappear. Twenty-seven dollars is the cost of a few coffees, but more importantly, it’s a signal to yourself that you're serious about changing this pattern. Will this be a pitch for coaching? The workshop stands on its own. You'll leave with your response, whether or not you ever spend another dollar with me. At the end, I'll share two ways to keep working with me (Behavior Rx at $97 and the 30-Day Power Struggle Fix at $350) and drop the links in the chat. Zero pressure either way. What does BCBA mean? Board Certified Behavior Analyst. It's a graduate-level credential in applied behavior analysis, the science of how behavior works and how to change it. I use that science to help real families in real kitchens on real Tuesday mornings. Why Everything Becomes a Battle (And How to Make It Stop) The next battle is coming. Let's make sure you're ready for it. Get My Ticket for $27 Tuesday, July 28th at 9 am PT/ 12 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included

Read real testimonials from parents who have worked with Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and parenting coach at Confidently Mommin’. Discover how her expert guidance has transformed families and empowered parents." Speaking Engagements Melissa Schulz, MA, BCBA, is a sought-after parenting speaker known for her warm, relatable, and deeply practical approach to behavior and child development. With a rare blend of clinical expertise and real-life humor, Melissa equips parents, educators, and professionals with evidence-based tools they can use immediately—without guilt, shame, or perfectionism. Her audiences leave feeling seen, supported, and empowered to handle even the most challenging behaviors with confidence and calm. Keynote Talks From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough Calm the Parenting Chaos: 5 Simple Shifts to Feel More in Control (No Matter What Your Kids Do) Request Speaking Info In this video: a clip from Melissa’s live MomCon 2025 workshop on understanding what really drives children’s behavior. Past Speaking Engagements Livermore Learning Tree Preschool Moms Connect at Vintage Grace Resonate Church Bright Beginnings Folsom Co-Op and Preschool The Mom Co at Twin Cities Church Loomis Life Care Roseville Parent Education Preschool The Mom Co at Life Community Church MomsNext at Foundation Christian Church HerStory International Women's Day Online Summit Podcast Guest Appearances See Podcast Appearances Thank you thank you thank you! Wow! What an incredible experience to have had Melissa come speak to our mommas! She is not only sweet and endearing, easy to talk and listen to, and full of experience, knowledge and educated expertise; but she makes you feel seen, known, heard and as if you had already known her for years! Her presentation was so helpful to all who were there and helped give us all a few more “tools” in our parenting tool belts. I highly recommend you seek her out and have her be a part of your parenting experience! I cannot say enough about how great she was! Carrie W. Would you like Melissa to speak at your upcoming event? Request Speaking Info

Meet the founder of Confidently Mommin’ and discover her passion for empowering parents. Learn about her journey, qualifications, and commitment to providing expert parenting coaching and support tailored to your unique needs. About Me I am a mom of 3 with a Master’s Degree in Counseling. I’m a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with over 20 years of experience working with children with severe behavior disorders and providing support and training to their caregivers. I specialize in helping parents learn how to calmly and confidently manage any and all challenging behaviors by providing research based, practical tools and parenting best practices. I have successfully worked with hundreds of children and families across the country. I use a unique blend of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), Polyvagal theory, neuroscience, mindfulness and mindset work in my coaching practice. I have expertise in supporting children with high needs, including strong willed children, deeply feeling children, and/or children with a diagnosis or neurodiversity. More About My Professional Background More About My Personal Life Featured On Living Your Legacy with Michelle Slaney-Trovato Podcast Episode 90 Living your Legacy Podcast Listen to it on Spotify Listen to it on Apple Podcast Living Your Legacy with Michelle Slaney-Trovato Podcast Episode 90 Living your Legacy Podcast Listen to it on Spotify Listen to it on Apple Podcast Been There Got Out IG Live Interview Been There Got Out Listen to interview Stress Free IEP Podcast with Frances Shefter Watch on YouTube Listen to interview Listen to interview More About My Professional Background I started my career 22 years ago working in group homes for children who had been abused, in shelters for teenage prostitutes, and in teen drug rehabilitation homes. I then worked at a school for children with emotional disturbances, at first in the classroom and later as the Director of Behavioral Services overseeing their program for students with moderate to severe autism. I later served as the Director of Behavioral Services at a large organization serving children and adults with autism in both school and group home settings. In 2009, I founded my first company, which provided in-home behavioral health (ABA) therapy for children with autism. The company grew to have 75 employees and consistently won awards for being one of the best companies to work for in the nation, and providing the highest quality ABA services in the area. I founded Confidently Mommin’ in 2020 to serve families as a Parenting Coach. Using my extensive education and background, I use proven processes to help parents know how to calmly and confidently manage any and all of their child’s challenging behaviors and enjoy their family time. I have been a guest lecturer at Azusa Pacific University and San Jose State University and have supervised BCBA candidates internationally. I am a popular speaker on parenting and behavioral strategies. More About My Personal Life My husband Brian and I have been married for 17 years. We have 3 hilarious, wonderful, and exhausting children and a sweet pit bull named Goose. I am very involved in my church and serve as a leader in the mom’s ministry. I volunteer as a Girl Scout Troop Leader for my daughter’s troop. I am a runner and love to be outdoors, read, and spend time with friends and family. I am obsessed with personal development and growth. I never miss an Office Ladies Podcast or a Marvel movie, and would live at Disneyland if I could. Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

If summer has already started to feel like constant “I’m bored” “Can I have screens?” “Just one more show…” you’re not alone—and this is exactly why I created this for you. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox The “I’m Bored” Solution The Summer System that Ends Screen Time Battles Tired of hearing “I’m bored” all day… and negotiating screen time over and over? You’re not alone—and you don’t need more rules or more willpower. You need a system that actually works. Inside this free guide, you’ll learn how to: ✔ Give your kids clear structure (without being rigid) ✔ Stop daily screen time battles ✔ Help your kids stay busy without relying on screens ✔ Teach independence so they stop coming to you for everything This is for you if: Your kids default to screens all day You feel like the screen time “police” You’ve tried setting limits… and it turns into a fight You want a calmer, more structured summer (without making it complicated) Imagine this instead: Your kids know exactly what to do. They stay busy on their own. And screen time is no longer a daily battle. 👉 Get the free Calm Summer System now And if you’re ready for more support… If you’re thinking “This would help… but my child would push back hard” or “I need something that actually works for my kid” You don’t have to figure it out alone. I help moms create simple, effective systems tailored to how their child’s brain works—so things actually stick. 👉 Apply for a free consultation Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

For moms raising strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse kids who love their child deeply but feel overwhelmed by the big behaviors at home. In this free five day reset, you will stop guessing, understand what is really driving your child’s big behaviors, and finally begin breaking the cycle. Group Coaching When nothing seems to work with your strong willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse child… finally understand the behavior and know exactly what to do next. Subheadline: Inside this coaching program you will learn the proven system that helps moms stop reacting, understand what is actually driving their child’s behavior, and create real lasting change at home. Join Us! Spaces limited/countdown- no changes You Love Your Child More Than Anything But parenting them feels harder than you ever expected. The meltdowns seem to come out of nowhere. The power struggles drain your energy. You repeat yourself over and over and somehow nothing changes. You try to stay calm, sometimes you succeed, but other times you hear yourself yelling and immediately feel awful. You read the books, try the parenting strategies, promise yourself tomorrow will be different, and yet the same cycle keeps happening. Part of you wonders: What am I missing? The truth is, many strong willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids do not respond to traditional parenting strategies, and not because you are doing something wrong, or because your child is broken. It is because their nervous system and brain work differently. Until you understand why the behavior is happening, the strategies rarely work. Maybe you recognize some of this: Your child melts down over things that seem small Simple requests turn into arguments Screens cause constant battles You feel like you are walking on eggshells You want to stay calm but keep getting triggered If this sounds like your house lately, you are in the right place. What to Expect By the end of this free reset, you will: Understand why the big behaviors keep happening Feel more steady and less reactive in the moment See your child’s behavior in a completely different way Know what to try next instead of guessing Feel hopeful again Register Now Hi, I'm Melissa I help moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids understand big behaviors and finally break the cycle at home. My work combines behavior science, nervous system awareness, and real world parenting in a way that feels practical and doable. I’m a national speaker and award-winning parenting coach and I’ve supported hundreds of families navigating big behaviors at home. I’m also a mom of 3 with neurodiverse and strong-willed kids of my own. I know how exhausting it can feel when nothing seems to work, and I’ve created a proven system that makes lasting change possible. Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA Behavior Expert & Parenting Coach Named “Best Parenting Coach in the United States in 2025” March 16 to March 20, 2026 How It Works Over five days inside a private Facebook group, you will receive: One short video you can watch (10-15 min) One live group coaching call Simple shifts you can try immediately A supportive space with other moms who get it This is designed to feel supportive, not overwhelming. And it’s free! Register Now Why This is Different? Most parenting advice focuses on what to do in the moment. Charts. Consequences. Scripts. Staying calm. But if the same big behaviors keep happening, it is not because you need more tips. Big behaviors are not random. They follow patterns that most parents were never taught to see. When you understand what is really happening and change your response in the right places, the behavior begins to change too. That is what this free reset will help you do. This free reset is for you if: You are exhausted from the same big behaviors happening over and over You keep wondering what you are missing You feel guilty after you react You know your child is not “bad” but you do not know what to do differently You are ready for something to change You Do Not Have to Keep Living in the Same Cycle You are not failing. Your child is not broken. And this is not random. There is a reason the big behaviors keep happening. And when you understand it, everything starts to feel more manageable. Calm is possible. Change is possible. And it starts here. Join us inside The 5 Day Calm Mom Reset. Register Now Kick-Off Week All times are PST Mon 4/6 at 10 am Tues 4/7 at 5pm Wed 4/8 at 11 am Thurs 4/9 at 9 am Fri 4/10 at 11 am Weekly Calls 4/15 at 11 am 4/22 at 11 am 4/28 at 5pm 5/6 at 11 am 5/13 at 11 am 5/20 at 11 am 5/26 at 5pm 6/3 at 11 am 6/10 at 11 am 6/17 at 11 am 6/24 at 11 am 6/30 at 5 pm Questions? Click the button below to contact me directly with any questions you have! Contact Me

Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Your Next Steps You're officially on the waitlist for Confidently Mommin' Together — and I'm so glad you're here. 💛 When doors open for the next cohort, you'll be the first to know — before I announce it anywhere else. You'll get an email from me with all the details: dates, kickoff week, investment, and the link to reserve your spot before it goes public. To be sure you don’t miss anything important, please add Melissa@MelissaSchulz.com to your contacts or safe sender list.

Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Confidently Mommin’ is proud to return as a sponsor at MomCon 2025 Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids Confidently Mommin’ is proud to return as a sponsor at Mom Con 2025 Support for Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids September 25—27 in Orlando, FL 00 Days : 00 Hours : 00 Minutes : 00 Seconds Stay in the Know! Sign up for exclusive Mom Con emails and be the first to learn about exclusive giveaways and how to connect with me at the event. As a thank-you for joining my email list, I’ll send you my free e-guide How to Get Kids to Listen. Get Your Free Guide Here “Melissa Schulz is the real deal!” Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa! – Sarah B. I’m offering my signature 5 Minute Meltdown Makeover for FREE! Just you and me to tackle the biggest behavior challenge you’re having with your child (ages 0-18). Here’s how it works: You tell me the issue that’s overwhelming you most I uncover the real root of that behavior You walk away with one simple, doable step that actually works for your unique child There are limited spots and they fill quickly- so don’t wait. You’re just one conversation away from more peace and less chaos. Reserve Your Spot! Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! Don't miss my upcoming workshop! "Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her." Melissa has been an amazing coach and I have learned so much from her. She provides just enough support and challenges you to be a better version of yourself. She is kind, funny and overall, a beautiful human being. Blessed to know her and have her in my life. – Bindiya M Work With Me! Confidently Mommin’ Together is a 3 month group coaching program that has all the tips and support that moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids need to effectively manage challenging behaviors and to love mom life again. Reserve Your Spot! Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! VIP Code for BONUS Use code MOMCON at checkout to unlock your special MomCon bonus! Reserve Your Spot Today! Work with me! Confidently Mommin’ Together is a 3 month group coaching program that has all the tips and support that moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids need to effectively manage challenging behaviors and to love mom life again. Reserve your spot today! Special MomCon BONUS Join by midnight 9/27 to get exclusive access to "The Parenting Replay", a live call with Melissa valued at $300. Got Questions? Or maybe you just want to chat with another mom who gets it? Come visit me at Booth 903! "I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately." I've always dreaded my alone time with him. He has been a difficult child from day one for me, until the last few months he’s really turning a corner! My son was having 5-6 tantrums a day that would last for up to an hour of full blown screaming, crying, foaming at the mouth, hitting, kicking, biting, and throwing things. I had no idea what the right reaction was. I tried staying calm, I tried yelling back, time-out, ignoring him, etc. I was losing my mind. I’m now enjoying my sweet child! Our days aren’t perfect, but they are so much better lately. All to say I highly recommend Melissa! Thank you so much for the months of parent coaching. It has SO paid off! – Lyndee S.

Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Download my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox Get My FREE E-Guide: "How to Get Kids to Listen with 3 Simple Strategies " Get the Guide Want your kids to listen without yelling? Get my free guide + access to my most popular webinar: How to Get Kids to Listen Get the Guide Does this sound like you? You love your kids — but parenting feels like a constant battle. You’re yelling more than you want to. You’re second-guessing your every move. You feel like you’ve tried everything… and nothing’s worked. You’re Googling parenting tips late at night but still feel stuck. If that’s you — this guide is your first step to less stress and more connection! Get the Guide Here’s what you’ll get inside the free guide + webinar: Simple strategies that work for kids 18 months to 18 years Tools to increase cooperation (without yelling or bribing!) The replay of my most popular workshop: How to Get Kids to Listen A gentle, confidence-building approach to parenting Get the Guide Do you have a wonderful child who is also stubborn, strong-willed, sensitive, deeply feeling, hyperactive, impulsive, angry, or anxious? Does your child have a diagnosis like ADHD or Autism? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed by your child’s behavior? Have you tried everything but nothing works? Understand your kid and know just how to respond Become the parent you want to be Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

Find answers to frequently asked questions about Confidently Mommin’ and Melissa Shulz, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Learn more about parenting coaching services, approaches, and how to get started on your journey. FAQ Do you have an office near me? I’m as close as your computer! I work with all my clients via Zoom and my certification is international so I get to serve clients anywhere and everywhere. When do you observe my child? I actually don’t! I have worked in families homes for over twenty years and have found it is most effective to talk to the parent and hear their perspective on their child’s behavior. My clients are welcome to send me videos of their child but that’s usually not necessary. Should my partner be on the consultation call too? You are both welcome to be on the call! However, most people prefer to talk to me individually. My coaching program focuses on one parent. Each parent has different triggers, emotional reactions, and default responses, so I work with each parent individually to address your specific patterns with your child. All coaching sessions can be recorded and a transcript and summary is provided that can be shared with the partner and the partner is welcome to join occasional sessions to ensure everyone is on the same page. I offer a discount for couples that each purchase their own individual coaching package. Do you acccept insurance? No, my services are private pay only. My package was thoughtfully and intentionally created to bridge the gap between what medical insurance provides and what families actually need to change their child(ren)’s behavior. Is your coaching program the same as therapy No! I am not a licensed therapist and do not do therapy. I LOVE therapy and recommend it for all humans, and what I do is very different. While we will discuss some thoughts and emotions that are keeping you stuck, we will do this in a very intentional and step by step way with an emphasis on behavior change. I do not provide medical treatment for a mental health condition, instead I use a unique blend of mindset work and research-based behavioral strategies to change your behavior so that you can change your child’s behavior. Some of my clients are also in therapy to resolve childhood issues, trauma, treat a mental health condition, etc., and it works well to do both. How much does your coaching program cost? I share that information with you on the consultation call once I understand your unique family situation and what your needs are. Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox

What if 2 minutes a day could help you feel calmer, lighter, and more connected? If you’re raising a child who is strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse… your days can feel intense, overwhelming, and sometimes just a lot. This challenge is for YOU. 30-Day Gratitude Challenge For Moms of Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive & Neurodiverse Kids Join the Challenge 2 Minutes of Gratitude. Feel Better All Day. 💛 What if 2 minutes a day could help you feel calmer, lighter, and more connected? If you’re raising a child who is strong-willed, sensitive, or neurodiverse… your days can feel intense, overwhelming, and sometimes just a lot. This challenge is for YOU. Here's What You Get 📱 Daily Morning Texts (30 Days) Every morning, I’ll send you a short, simple prompt telling you what to notice that day. A small win A moment of peace A strength in your child Something you did well A moment of connection Just notice it. Then write it down that evening. You can also reply directly to the texts anytime to share what you notice or ask questions. I read every message 💛 📝 Beautiful Printable Workbook Each night you’ll take 1–2 minutes to write down what you noticed. This is where the transformation happens — not by forcing positivity, but by recognizing the moments that already exist. 💛 Immediate Benefits You’ll Feel Less overwhelm More patience More confidence More connection A calmer nervous system A better understanding of your child And a better relationship with yourself Most challenges are one way. This one isn’t. You don’t have to do it alone. ✨ Why Gratitude Works (Especially For Moms Like You) Gratitude isn’t fluffy. It’s science . It calms the autonomic nervous system. It reduces emotional reactivity. It increases resilience. It makes parenting easier — and more enjoyable. For moms of big-feeling kids, this is life-changing. Join Now 🎉 Join the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge It’s simple: 1️⃣ Sign up 2️⃣ Receive short daily texts you can actually respond to 3️⃣ Write your evening reflections 4️⃣ Feel better — truly — all day You can reply back to me anytime. I’m right there with you in this. Join Now 💛 Your Next Step: Join the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge Join the 30-Day Challenge The simple strategies I will teach you will completely change how you think about your child's behavior, how you interact with them, and transform your connection with them forever. Learning these strategies right now is everything for your family. "Our home feels calmer — and my child’s behavior is already improving." After the triggering session, everything changed. Our mornings are calmer, my strong-willed 4-year-old has fewer problem behaviors, and I feel more confident. I highly recommend this program to other parents! – Jane Want More Personalized Support? If you’re longing for calm, consistency, and confidence with your strong-willed or sensitive child, I’d love to support you. Apply for a consultation below. Apply Here You’re doing an amazing job, Mama. Truly. Let’s make your days feel lighter — together. 💛

Join Parenting Coach & Behavior Expert Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA, to learn GUIDE; a simple, proven 5-step process to finally understand the why behind the behavior and respond with confidence and calm. Yell Less, Smile More! Support for Parents Raising Kids Ages 0-18 Schedule A Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox From From Explosive to Empowered: How to Respond (Not React) When Behavior Gets Tough Struggling with your child’s challenging behavior despite trying everything? If your child is strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse, this free webinar is for you . Join Parenting Coach & Behavior Expert Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA, to learn GUIDE; a simple, proven 5-step process to finally understand the why behind the behavior and respond with confidence and calm. FREE MASTERCLASS February 27th at 9:30am PT | 10:30am MT | 11:30am CT | 12:30pm ET FREE MASTERCLASS Learn How To: ✅ Truly understand your child’s behavior (and why what you’ve tried before hasn’t worked) ✅ Identify and release your own triggers so you can stay calm and confident ✅ Get to the root of your child’s misbehavior instead of just reacting to it ✅ Build stronger connections while teaching positive behaviors ✅ Respond effectively when things get tough without the power struggles You’ll walk away with practical tools you can start using right away to bring more peace, connection, and confidence into your parenting. Save Your Spot! Friday, February 27th at 9:30 am PT / 10:30 am MT / 11:30 am CT / 12:30 pm ET Attend live or catch the replay. Register using the form to save your space. You’ll receive all the details you need to attend after signing up. Become the parent you want to be. Apply for a Free Consultation Get Free Support in Your Inbox