Is Your Child Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive or Neurodiverse?
Then you already know generic parenting advice doesn't work for kids like yours. You've tried the all strategies...and you're still having the same battles.
That's because the missing piece isn't a better tactic. It's understanding why the behavior is happening. You need a plan built for your child, not some cookie-cutter script.
This group coaching program was designed for you.
Confidently Mommin’ Together is the only program of its kind for moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. You will learn the best ways to respond to any and all challenging behaviors in a way that actually WORKS for your child’s personality.
Build custom behavior plans that fit your child's unique personality, with professional support to help you make it stick.
✅ Know exactly what your child is trying to tell you...so when they melt down, you can stop guessing and respond with quiet certainty
✅ Build highly tailored plans that fit a spicy, deeply sensitive personality; not generic parenting theories that fail in real life
✅ Get guidance when things don't go as planned, so you have professional support when you need it most
AWARDED 2025 USA BEST PARENTING
COACH
Meet Your Coach
Melissa is a mom of three and a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with over 20 years of experience supporting children with complex behavioral needs. She helps parents understand what’s really driving their child’s behavior so they can respond with more calm, clarity, and confidence. Her approach blends research-based methods with real-life application to create meaningful, lasting change for families.
A Real Community
With Real Results
I know from personal experience how hard it can be to parent a child who is strong-willed, deeply feeling, or has a diagnosis like ADHD or autism.
You love your kid more than anything, and you're also exhausted, overwhelmed, and frustrated in ways you didn't expect.
Does this sound familiar? They won't listen. The outbursts feel explosive. Every daily routine turns into a battle. You feel constant tension at home. You want to enjoy your kids. Instead, you're always stressed.
Things don't have to stay this way.
Inside Confidently Mommin' Together, we use a proven framework called GUIDE to make that happen.
Most parenting advice fails because it gives you information without helping you create a plan that fits YOUR child.
My son was having 5-6 tantrums a day that would last for up to an hour of full blown screaming, crying, foaming at the mouth, hitting, kicking, biting, and throwing things. I had no idea what the right reaction was. I tried staying calm, I tried yelling back, time-out, ignoring him, etc. I was losing my mind. I'm now enjoying my sweet child!
– Lyndee S.
AWARDED 2025 USA
BEST PARENTING COACH
Meet Your Coach
Melissa is a mom of three with two neurospicy kids of her own. She's a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with a Master's in Counseling and over 20 years of experience supporting children with complex behavioral needs.
As a national speaker and parenting coach, she's helped thousands of parents understand what's really driving their child's behavior so they can respond with more calm, clarity, and confidence.
Her approach blends research-based methods with real-life, lived experience to create meaningful, lasting change for families.
Melissa truly wants to help parents grow and enjoy parenting! She has all the expertise and schooling and knows what she's talking about! Aside from her credentials, when you meet with her, you instantly enter a judgment-free zone, which is the best feeling and place to be when working on yourself.
- Katherine G.
My Proven Process
Most parenting advice fails because it gives you information without helping you create a plan that fits YOUR child.
Inside Confidently Mommin’ Together we use the GUIDE Framework to create a personalized Behavior Breakthrough Plan for each behavior.
Then we implement the plan together.
Melissa was a game-changer in my mom game for helping me build my relationship and understanding of my spicy two-year-old. Full-blown tantrums in the grocery store, backbreaking dance moves to get her in her car seat, full-on eye contact while slamming her head into the ground, and pet torture while smiling…I cried nightly and yelled daily. Melissa was my breath of fresh air.
- Kelly L.
My Proven Process
Most parenting advice fails because it gives you information without helping you create a plan that fits YOUR child.
Inside Confidently Mommin’ Together we use the GUIDE Framework to create a personalized Behavior Breakthrough Plan for each behavior.
Then we implement the plan together.
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G=Gather Data
We pick one behavior to focus and start tracking it to understand what’s really happening.
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U= Understand and Release Triggers
We identify patterns and triggers. Your child’s triggers… and yours. Because both matter more than you’ve probably been told.
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I= Investigate the Cause of the Behavior
We identify the root cause of the behavior so you can stop guessing and start addressing what’s actually going on underneath.
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D=Deter the Behavior From Happening Again
We prevent the behavior before it starts. We teach the skills your child is missing. Things like emotional regulation, flexibility, and problem-solving. The stuff they were never explicitly taught.
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E=Encourage Appropriate Behaviors
We reinforce what you do want to see. So the right behaviors actually stick. And we come up with a plan that will actually work for how to respond when the problem behavior happens again.
Everything you need to create a personalized Behavior Breakthrough Plan, implement it with confidence, and get support when real life doesn’t go according to plan.
Join Melissa live on Zoom each week to get coached through your toughest parenting moments, gain insight from other’s experiences, and walk away with a personalized plan you can use right away. No pressure to show up live, you get all the replays.
Get instant access to a an online course that has everything you need. The videos are short and simple and designed to be watched while making dinner or in the school pick-up line. Need an answer fast? Use The Mellies- our built-in AI parenting sidekicks do the heavy lifting for you.
Connect with other moms who get it inside our members-only Facebook group and live calls. Ask questions, share wins, and feel deeply supported- without judgement.
Passively calm your physical stress response using specially filtered music.
No manuals to study, no homework to complete, and no extra routines to build. Just listen to the audio while having your morning coffee, and let acoustic science do all the work.
Stop trying to explain everything to your spouse after a long day.
Your partner receives access to the portal, trainings, and Mellies so you can finally get on the same page.
Go beyond the group content with private coaching from Melissa to work through your family's specific challenges, create a personalized plan, and include your partner so you're both moving in the same direction.
*Available to add on to your experience, inside the program.
This program is exactly what I needed to be able to support my daughter. I've tried so many different parenting suggestions and advice, and none of it made any sense until this program.
-Cathy C.
Real Results: Here's What You Will Gain
Manage Behavior
→ Get to the root of why your child is misbehaving
→ Follow the proven 5-step process to effectively respond to any and all challenging behaviors
→ Confidently respond to behavior problems in a way that works
Stay Calm
→ End the cycle of trying to stay patient, yelling anyway, and then laying in bed feeling sick with mom guilt
→ Quiet the physical panic that flares up in your chest the moment you hear that sharp, high whine in the hallway
→ Recognize when your own body goes into fight-or-flight, so you can be a steady anchor instead of adding fuel to the fire
Connect With Your Child
→ Know exactly why your child is misbehaving and how to help
→ Understand your child’s perspective and what they are trying to learn and communicate
→ Respond in a way that creates a deep connection between you and your child that will last their entire life
Drop Mom Guilt
→ Stop the vicious cycle of trying your best to stay calm, yelling, and then beating yourself up once and for all
→ Recognize the tape of mean things your brain is telling you on repeat all day long and learn to turn it off
→ Learn to treat yourself like someone you love
Create Home Systems
→ Create a Discipline Plan so you know exactly how to respond when your kids misbehave in a way that will actually work for their personalities
→ Avoid power struggles over screen time, meals, homework, getting ready for school etc. by creating effective systems and routines
→ Support your child in learning independence instead of nagging them to complete daily tasks
Gain Time & Energy
→ Finally have the energy to take care of yourself, not just everyone else
→ Experience so much more emotional energy when you drop the mom guilt
→ Add hours to your week to do the things you want to do when you stop having to manage lengthy meltdowns and arguments
Melissa Schulz is the real deal! She was super responsive when I posted about how to answer some sensory issues my middle child was having. In a short chat, she was encouraging and provided great strategies I could use right away. She knew exactly what I was talking about when I described the issue and her deep expertise in child behavior and parenting shone through. I highly recommend running your parenting questions by Melissa!
-Sarah B.
Learn how to think, feel, and show up
every day as the mom you want to be.
You are going to know exactly what parenting strategy will work best for each unique child and personality. You won’t need to consult Dr. Google ever again.
This program is different from all the things you’ve tried before. Most of my clients have read all the parenting books, watched all the reels, stayed up late googling different strategies, and have tried all the things but nothing ever works.
Not only will you get expert advice on exactly which strategy to use for which kid for which behavior at which age and stage and learn how to do that yourself effortlessly, but we are also going to change your perspective on yourself as a mom and on your child’s behavior.
Parenting a child that is strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse can be hard. It feels like scaling a mountain.
At the same time, our brain gives us all sorts of negative thoughts about ourselves and our parenting. “I'm not good enough.” “I am a terrible mom.” “I can’t believe I yelled AGAIN.” These lies play on repeat in our head and suck away all of our energy and joy. Each negative thought is a brick in a backpack you are carrying around. While trying to scale a mountain.
I’ll teach you a proven process to stop listening to those negative thoughts and drop the guilt. You will learn how to finally put that heavy backpack down and just focus on scaling the mountain of parenting. And since you now know exactly how to respond to the challenging behaviors, the mountain is a bit less steep than before.
Once you know how to do this, you will have more energy. You’ll be able to really enjoy your children and this phase of parenting instead of just trying to survive. And you will know how to do it for the rest of your life!
After joining Confidently Mommin' Together, I feel more regulated and can stop a negative thought spiral before it takes over. My husband and I are united with a shared approach to parenting, our kids have clearer boundaries and consequences, and challenging behaviors have noticeably decreased. Our whole family communicates better now.
-Rachel R.
This Doesn’t Have to
Take Over Your Life
You don't need hours of free time or a perfectly organized schedule to create meaningful change.
Most members find they spend about 1-2 hours per week:
✔ Attending coaching calls live or watching the replay
✔ Implementing their personalized Behavior Breakthrough Plan
✔ Getting support when challenges come up
You won't be asked to overhaul your entire parenting approach overnight or spend hours studying parenting theories.
Instead, we'll focus on one behavior at a time, take small, practical steps forward, and build momentum together.
Just saying "yes" to this group shifted my mental health and my relationship with my daughter💗
After watching just ONE video, the very next day was a better day for my family. The morning was easier, so I wasn't crying on the way to school drop-off. When I kissed my 6 y/o goodbye, I actually meant it in a loving way, not an "OMG, leave me alone.. I can't handle you" kind of way. I could show up to work refreshed and clear instead of depleted and discouraged, and then come back home to my kids feeling more capable, patient, and laidback. Home AND work-life have gotten easier!
Thank you, Melissa!
-Sarah T.
This is for Your Family.
Investment: $2,000
Choose from a single payment of $2,000
or three monthly payments of $700.
Break the cycle of yelling and frustration. Build a relationship with your child based on trust, not eggshells. When you invest in this program, you're not just solving today's challenge — you're transforming your family's future. Join now.
Spaces are limited. Sign-ups close on July 2.
Most of my clients have already read the books, listened to the podcasts, followed the Instagram accounts, and tried strategies that worked for a few days before falling apart.
The difference is that we don't use a one-size-fits-all approach.
Inside CMT, you'll create a personalized Behavior Breakthrough Plan using my GUIDE framework. Together we'll identify why the behavior is happening, choose strategies that fit your child's unique personality, and troubleshoot challenges as they come up.
You'll also have access to coaching, Mellies AI support, SSP, and a community of moms who understand exactly what you're going through—so you're not trying to figure everything out on your own.Kick-Off Week:
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Mon 7/6 at 10 am PST
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Tues 7/7 at 11 am PST
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Wed 7/8 at 4 pm PST
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Thurs 7/9 at 1 pm PST
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Fri 7/10 at 9 am PST
Weekly Calls:
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Thurs 7/16 at 11 am PST
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Wed 7/22 at 11 am
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Tues 7/28 at 4pm
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Thurs 8/6 at 11 am
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Wed 8/12 at 11 am
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Wed 8/19 at 11 am
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Tue 8/25 at 4 pm
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Wed 9/2 at 11 am
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Wed 9/9 at 11 am
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Tue 9/15 at 4 pm
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Wed 9/23 at 11 am
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Wed 9/30 at 11 am
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No problem.
All coaching calls are recorded and uploaded to the client portal within 24 hours.
Many members watch the replays on their own schedule and still make incredible progress. You'll also have access to the Facebook group and Mellies AI support whenever questions come up between calls.
If your schedule is especially busy or unpredictable, you also have the option to add private coaching with Melissa for more personalized, flexible support.I completely understand.
Many moms join after already spending money on books, courses, webinars, and programs that didn't create lasting change.
The goal of CMT isn't to give you more information. It's to help you create real change in your home.
When families join, they're investing in personalized support, expert guidance, a proven framework, accountability, nervous system regulation through SSP, and a step-by-step plan they can continue using long after the program ends.
The cost of continuing to feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure of what to do can be far greater than the investment itself.
You're not alone. Many moms join after buying courses, books, and trainings they never finished.
That's exactly why CMT isn't just a course.
You'll have coaching calls, a personalized plan, Mellies AI support, and a community of moms cheering you on along the way.
You don't have to be perfect. You just have to keep taking the next step.Absolutely.
While the live coaching calls and Facebook group are designed for moms, your partner will receive access to the client portal and Mellies AI support so they can learn the same strategies you're learning.
Many moms tell me one of their biggest frustrations is feeling responsible for learning everything and then trying to teach it to their spouse. Inside CMT, your partner can access the videos, tools, and support themselves, so you don't have to carry that mental load alone.Many moms join CMT before their partner is fully on board—and that's okay.
The truth is, you don't need to wait for your spouse to change before creating positive changes in your home. When one parent starts responding differently, the entire family dynamic often begins to shift.
Your partner will also receive access to the client portal and Mellies AI support, making it easy for them to learn alongside you if and when they're ready. Many spouses become more interested once they start seeing positive changes at home.Most members find they spend about 1-2 hours per week attending coaching calls (or watching replays), implementing their Behavior Breakthrough Plan, and getting support when they need it.
You don't need hours every day or a perfectly organized schedule. We'll focus on one behavior at a time and build momentum together.
