
ON-DEMAND WORKSHOP · INSTANT ACCESS
Why Everything Becomes a Battle
(And How to Make It Stop)
Current Problems
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Fighting the same battles every single day (shoes, screens, homework, leaving the park) no matter how calm you stay?
Ever cave in aisle 7 because you can’t handle one more grocery store meltdown, then carry the guilt all the way to bedtime?
Tried the reels, the sticker charts, and the gentle parenting scripts, only to watch your kid look you dead in the eye and laugh?
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Workshop Benefits
During this workshop you’ll:
Learn why your kid escalates when you stay calm and keeps pushing after you've said no (the real answer, from behavior science, in mom language)
See why giving in sometimes is completely understandable and also accidentally teaching the battle to keep going
Get the conference table reframe that puts you and your kid on the same team, working against the problem together
Watch a real coaching moment: moms brought their toughest standoffs and you'll see me work through them with my coaching framework
Learn the Verbal Pivot, the 3-step response I teach for strong-willed and highly sensitive kids
Find out why behavior gets harder right before it gets easier (the extinction burst), so you don't give up the night before it starts working
Build your own Verbal Pivot response for your actual kid, pausing the workshop right where the room did


My Story
Why I Teach This
I'm a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with 22 years of experience working with kids with ADHD, autism, sensory processing differences, and big behaviors. I've sat with hundreds of families and watched the same pattern play out: a mom who's read everything and tried everything, convinced she's failing, when the actual problem is that the advice was written for a different kid.
I also have my own kids. I know exactly what it looks like when the whole morning falls apart before 8am.
That's what this workshop is. A 60-minute workshop where you watch how I think through a real standoff, then build a response for your actual kid.
I'm Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA. I run Confidently Mommin', where I help moms of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids stop surviving their days and start enjoying their kids again. This workshop is the fastest way I know to hand you the first piece.
FAQ
My kid is 3. Or 9. Is this for us?
The workshop is built for kids ages 2 to 10. The Verbal Pivot works across that whole range, and the coaching moment pulls scenarios from different ages so you see how it applies to yours.
Is this only for kids with ADHD or autism?
It's for any mom whose kid doesn't respond to standard parenting advice. Strong-willed, highly sensitive, emotionally intense, kids with ADHD, kids with autism. If the usual approaches haven't worked, you're in the right place.
Is this live or pre-recorded?
It's the recording of the live workshop, and it's yours the minute you buy. You'll watch the real coaching moment with the moms who were in the room, real battles, nothing scrubbed. The Verbal Pivot Worksheet comes with it, the same one they had in their hands.
How long do I have access?
Forever. Watch it at 9pm after a brutal bedtime, watch it again in six months when a new battle shows up, watch it on your phone in the pickup line. It's yours.
