Upcoming Workshop
From Explosive to Empowered
(How to Respond, Not React, When Behavior Gets Tough)
Sound Familiar, Mama?
🙋🏻♀️
🙋🏻♀️
🙋🏻♀️
Tired of having a different strategy for every single behavior, and still not knowing which one to reach for at 6pm?
Wondering why the thing that fixed your friend's kid did absolutely nothing for yours?
Ready to stop guessing about the meltdown, the homework standoff, or the phone that will not go on the counter?
🙋🏻♀️
Inside Our Hour Together
During this workshop you’ll:
Why the same process works on the hitting at 4, the homework standoff at 9, and the phone that will not go on the counter at 14, instead of needing a separate trick for each one
The four paychecks: the four things every kid is actually earning with their behavior, and which one yours is cashing
Why your sister-in-law’s bedtime fix did nothing at your house (she wasn’t wrong, it was the right fix for a different paycheck)
How to run the process on YOUR kid’s hardest behavior, right there in the room, with me coaching
The fastest reset I know, the one you can do mid-meltdown in the minivan or the grocery line
From Explosive to Empowered
(How to Respond, Not React, When Behavior Gets Tough)
One hour and $27, and the five-step process I use with every family I coach is yours (instead of one more strategy that works on one behavior and nothing else).
Tuesday, September 29th at 9 am PT / 12 pm ET Online Zoom Session Lifetime Replay Access Included
My Story
Hey. I'm Melissa.
I've spent twenty two years as a behavior analyst, twelve of them running my own ABA company, helping families figure out why kids do what they do. I'm also a mom of three, two of them neurodiverse, so the 7:58am shoe standoff isn't a hypothetical to me. It's my actual hallway.
In all those years I've never written a behavior plan that didn't come out of the same five steps. Different kid, different house, different behavior, same process every time. That's what GUIDE is, and it's why I can sit down with a mom I've never met, hear about four separate problems, and find the one thing running all of them before her coffee gets cold.
Here's what I know for sure after all of it: I have never met a bad kid. I've met a lot of behavior nobody had translated yet.
Your kid isn't broken and they're not doing it to you. They're an expert. They found the thing that works in your house and they're very good at it. Once you can see what it's earning them, you stop fighting the behavior and start changing what it pays.
Most moms have been collecting strategies for years. On the 29th you get the process underneath them, and it comes home with you.
I'm Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA, a parenting coach and a #1 internationally bestselling author. Helping moms yell less and smile more is my whole job.
FAQ
My kid is 3. Or 9. Or 16. Is this for us?
Yes. The process works for ages 2 to 18 because what sits underneath behavior doesn't change with age. What changes is the delivery, and the live coaching pulls examples from across the ages so you can see how it lands for yours.
My kid has ADHD or autism. Will this work for us?
Yes, and it was built with your kid at the center rather than as an afterthought. I've spent 22 years supporting neurodiverse kids and the families raising them, so the examples come from real houses like yours. Worth saying out loud for everyone else reading this: plenty of the families I work with have no diagnosis at all. A strong-willed 6 year old and an autistic 6 year old can be earning the exact same paycheck. The process doesn't need a label to work.
I've done the books, the podcasts, the reels. Why would this be different?
Because all of that gave you strategies. A strategy is an answer to one behavior. What you'll get on the 29th is the process that tells you which strategy belongs to which behavior and why, which is the part nobody hands out for free.
What happens when my kid stops doing this and starts doing something else?
You run the same five steps on the new thing. That's the whole reason I teach the process instead of a list of fixes. Kids change, behavior moves, and a process travels with you in a way a tip sheet never does.
Have you taught this before?
Yes. This is the workshop I'm teaching at MomCon, Momco's national conference, in front of a room of moms in Denver this September. Same process, same hour. The difference on the 29th is that you're on your own couch instead of in a conference center, you can bring your husband, and there's a live Q&A at the end where you can ask about your actual kid.
I can't be there at 9am. Should I still register?
Yep. The replay is lifetime and it's included, so nothing is lost. Register, watch when your house allows it, and do the work alongside the recording.
Do I need to buy anything else for this to work?
No. You'll hear about the ways I work with families one-on-one at the end, and the workshop stands on its own. You'll walk away with the process either way. The deeper offers are for moms who want my eyes on their specific kid, and plenty of moms take what they learn here and run.
I have one last question. How can I contact you?
Of course. Send me a note at melissa@melissaschulz.com and I'll help ya out.